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agomez · Feb 20, 2008, 10:10 AM

My boyfriend and I were having sex when his phone was going off many times ,so I told him just to answer it .I asked him who it was just because I was curious .He told me it was a girl he had meet long time ago and that they talk all the time .To be honest that turned me off and I really didn't want to do anything after him saying that .Now every time his phone goes off or he is texting ,I think its her .I do feel Jealous ,I won't lie but also I don't want to tell my boyfriend to stop talking to her .What should I do ?:(

shygrneyzs · Feb 20, 2008, 10:14 AM

You need to talk to your boyfriend and work through this. Yes, it is normal to feel some pangs of jealousy. Depends on what you do with those feelings. Talk to him and get all your feelings out.

Question - why is his phone on while you two are having sex? I would consider that rude. At least place the phone in the living room or put it on silent so a message can be left. NO one is that important to warrant interrupting a very intimate time. To me, that speaks volume on who is more important.

talaniman · Feb 20, 2008, 10:32 AM

Your assumption may be getting the best of you. Talk to him and tell him what you told us.

ISneezeFunny · Feb 20, 2008, 10:36 AM

Well I understand the phone not being off...

My phone is NEVER off. And sometimes, I just don't plan on getting with a girl, so when it happens, I just forget to put it on silent. However, after the first call, I'd def put it on silent.

Like everyone says... talk to him.

Another question I had was... how long have you two been together? I get the strange feeling that you jumped into bed with him too quickly... but I don't know why I feel that way.

agomez · Feb 20, 2008, 10:43 AM

Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

well I understand the phone not being off...

my phone is NEVER off. and sometimes, I just don't plan on getting with a girl, so when it happens, I just forget to put it on silent. However, after the first call, I'd def put it on silent.

like everyone says...talk to him.

another question I had was...how long have you two been together? I get the strange feeling that you jumped into bed with him too quickly...but I don't know why I feel that way.

After our sixth month of dating we started having sex but now we are 9 months together.