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    Curious0-1 Posts: 38, Reputation: 3
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    Feb 17, 2008, 01:59 AM
    Lonely Sexual
    I have a problem. I am away from my boyfriend of almost 3 years, he will be out of the country for about 6 months. I am a very sexual person, and I am very sexually frustrated. It has only been 2 months since he has been away from me. I admit, I do masturbate, but sometimes I feel that isn't enough! I do not know what I can do! The fantasy of being with someone else is there, but I will never do that! I have more love for him than anyone I know. It's just I can't figure out what I can do to give myself that plessure since he is not around. It's not the same! I love to feel his body, and since he is not there to please me, I cannot get that satisfaction. What can I do? :confused:
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    Feb 17, 2008, 02:07 AM
    Huh maybe use your imagination a little more. You already said you wouldn't have sex with anyone else. And that's respectable. Be faithful. Just do what you doing but use more imagination.. maybe that'll work.. not sure what else to say
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    Feb 17, 2008, 07:10 AM
    Talk to him about it. Maybe you can both engage in phone sex with each other as you pleasure yourself. This might add that personal touch you desire. Straying outside the relationship will add nothing by grief and regret, good call.
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    Feb 17, 2008, 07:11 AM
    Just another thought, if a phone is not readily available, cyber-sex can be pretty hot too!
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    Feb 17, 2008, 07:45 AM
    You can go to an adult shop and purchase some adult toys. Or go online to a site like Adam and Eve. I commend you for not seeking outside sexual relationships.
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    Feb 17, 2008, 11:27 AM
    Why not talk to him about having a side lover while he is gone?

    If that is no good, sign up for a couple of altruistic projects to keep you busy.
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    Feb 17, 2008, 10:36 PM
    Just told a friend of mine that even though... they can't be together... it's totally amazing what you can do to each other by texting or emailing... If he loves you... then you've got it made... look at the soldiers... they're away for sometimes 16 months... sometimes writing to each other is more of a turn on than the real thing... if both partners participate it will be awesome and unbelievable... I didn't think it could happen. But use your imagination... and you will totally be surprised!
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