[beckett]

Hi- I'm a sixteen years old and I'm in love-
Sounds unlikely I know. The problem is the person I love is my ex-
Who dumped me and I did some really awfull things to try and get my ex back-
It's been 5 months and I feel more in love every day-i go to school with my ex and so see we see each other every day- but she won't talk to me-
It's driving me insane-i need to get her back-any suggestions?

[JoeCanada76]

Don't play games. It sounds like you did terrible things. I think it is time that you moved on and try to let it go. If one day she happens to change her mind let her approach you but by you keep going to her is probably freaking her out and will get you into more trouble.

[fredg]

Hi,
At 64 yrs old, I have learned the old saying "love hurts" is very, very true.
At 16, you can be in love; and there is no doubt about that. Your ex wants to move on, with new people.
It's hard to do the same, but if you just hang in there, talking with new girls, eventually you will get over her. There's nothing you can do to "win" her back, if the respect, caring, honesty, and love isn't there for anymore for you.
I do wish you the best of luck.

[ScottGem]

As bad as you may feel talking with others should help. The problem is there are places where its more appropriate to talk about your issues. As indicated this forum is about Introducing yourself to the members here. Its not for asking questions or discussing problems. There is a Family and People forum for that. This post may be moved for you, otherwise please repost in that forum.

[Fr_Chuck]

Love does not always work on our time schedule or even in the ways we want it to.

Often the person we fall for, has someone else when we want them, then when and if they may notice you, you are with someone else by that time.
Luck and timing often has so much to do about it.

If you hurt the other perosn, they may never forgive you, sorry but there is no way to make someone want you. Esp if you have hurt them.

Best chance is to go to them and tell them exactly how you feel, honestly,
It may and most likely will not help, but there is little other choice at this point.

It is harder because you have to see them everyday, it is often easier or perhaps a little faster to get over someone that we don't have to see every day. And for some reason we often change our minds and want the person we did not want, and after we lose them, we go crazy because we change our minds. Love often does not give us a second chance

Sorry not the words you wanted to hear but just the way it is.

[beckett]

Thank you for taking the time to reply to my message but the thing is I think she may still love me-She looks at me a lot but that might be because I look at her-im not sure.The thing is her parents are a bit weird and they went mental when they found out I went out with their daughter(tho this was after she dumped me) I just really think we're meant for each other and letting go would be a big mistake-if I could get her on her own then I think I could explain myself and make things o.k but I don't want to cause anymore hurt-xxx