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    Ayshasid Posts: 5, Reputation: 2
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    Feb 6, 2008, 07:33 PM
    To call or not to call?
    I met a guy I liked at a friends party. Got really drunk and we made out. We never went all the way even though he suggested but did not push. We spent the rest of the night just talking and kissing before he left. He gave me his number and said to call.
    I txted him and he was very prompt and friendly with his answers.

    He had to attend a friends wedding and left town for a few days. He promised to call and meet up after he got back.

    I know he is back in town through his friends but have not heard from him.

    Should I call/txt? Did I go too fast or too slow? I really liked him and I don't understand what happened?
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    Feb 7, 2008, 12:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Ayshasid
    I met a guy i liked at a friends party. Got really drunk and we made out. We never went all the way even though he suggested but did not push. We spent the rest of the night just talking and kissing before he left. He gave me his number and said to call.
    I txted him and he was very prompt and friendly with his answers.

    He had to attend a friends wedding and left town for a few days. He promised to call and meet up after he got back.

    I know he is back in town through his friends but have not heard from him.

    Should i call/txt? Did i go too fast or too slow? I really liked him and i don't understand what happened?
    You should start talking to him and see what is going on that's how I started to date my girlfriend she told me to call and I wait 1 day then I called and we went to the mall and now we are dating...
    I think that makes it work out is to keep talking to him. *(like I did)*



    I hope it works out for u :D
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    Feb 7, 2008, 05:27 PM
    Should he not be the one who needs to call me and let me know he is back in town? I am worried that he might not like me and I don't want to come across as desperate... does that make sense?
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    Feb 7, 2008, 05:53 PM
    You should let him call you. If you know he's back in town and he has not called sounds to me like he does not want to. After making out at the party he probably felt obligated to return your texts, If he is really interested he'll call.
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    Feb 7, 2008, 06:02 PM
    Hey daisy27, I agree with what you have said... but while he was away one of his friends who was also at the party has been messaging me non stop trying to make me come out to meet him. I have not gone out but have replied to his messages which have become increasingly frequent. I wonder if once he got back and heard about it and thinks I was not really into him?

    Am I just making excuses for him?
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    Feb 7, 2008, 06:10 PM
    HI, to meet him or his friend the guy you like? Sounds to me like his friend is just looking for a good time. Maybe because you kissed his friend and stuff, he's hoping to get some action.
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    Feb 11, 2008, 12:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by daisy27
    HI, to meet him or his friend the guy you like? Sounds to me like his friend is just looking for a good time. Maybe because you kissed his friend and stuff, he's hoping to get some action.
    That could be true... I would not meet him if that's the case I mean he might be some loser that you don't like and could try something unless your stronger than him and can stop what ever he could do
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