[surrender]

Hey, I want to say think you for the advice. My ex and I been apart for 7 months now. And I want her back. Well she is in a new relationship... that started very soon. Anyway she and I speak often at least one a week. Mostly on the weekend cause she work long hrs. which she spend most of her day speaking with. And even on the way home we talk until she get ready for bed... she works 16 hrs o day during the weekend and most of that is on the phone with me... she tell me she still love me and always will. And the things we talk about is serious.. I try not to cross the line... because I want to respect that she have someone... she also tell me that she no I'm still in love with her... and she try to speak to me about the other person... I have tried and even joke about how she in love. But it hurts. So today I told her I can't do it anymore. Speak about the other person . So she said she wouldn't. We have been broken up a yr yet. I ask do she want to be my friend.she said no. she don't think we can be friends. So my question is what do I do. Do stop talking her completely. Or do I stay around and hope she come around and come back to me ?Is she holding on to me just in case the other relationship don't work out? What I'm confessed. I really want to win this one. Just don't no how. Please help me!

[ihatewestseneca]

Ignore her man, its not right that she's had you as a fallback/compliment whore for 7 months. She only wanted to still talk to you in case things with her new guy doesn't work out... I hate to say it, but you're just another one of her girlfriends now, you've been in the friend zone for 7 months. I would forget about her and move on, do No Contact, it'll be hard, and maybe even harder for you because you've hung on for so long, but things will get better. No Contact is the best way to end this confusion, and get better.

Good Luck

[TrueFaith]

Yeah man she is keeping you on the back burner don't wait around for her to make your fate. Make your own one by leaving her in the dust

Don't talk to her and work on yourself


Regards

[talaniman]

Stopping the contact will give you a chance to heal, and put your life together, without her in it.

[Brandino747]

I wouldn't contact her.

Want to know if she wants to be with you? Drop off the face of the earth (go elusive, put her one ice, don't contact her, or... if she contacts you then tell her your busy)

That will determine if she wants you. Cause let's face it we all want what we cannot have

[RustyJenkins]

If she doesn't want to be your friend then what does she want to be, she is playing with your mind. Maybe you are someone to fall back on. Think about who broke it off and why. Remember, you are ex's for a reason. It will not get easier for either of you as long as it keeps going like this. And the other thing is that you two spend so much time on the phone together, but she is in a relationship? When does she spend time with that person. It's time to cut all contact, save yourself the hurt...