
Originally Posted by
twinkiedooter
Change the locks on your home or apartment immediately. Don't waste your time waiting for her to give you the key back if she has been coming there when you are asleep. Do you know where she is now? If you do, take her stuff over there and park it outside the front door of where she lives and leave. If she is not cooperating with you about getting her things back she obviously does not want them any longer.
Once again we have different experiences and different advice -
This was a landlord/tenant relationship; the tenant must be given adequate legal notice both concerning eviction and removal of property from the premises.
There are different legal means to return the "left behind" property in different States - sometimes a certified letter with a final date; sometimes the landlord has to provide storage.
If the landlord takes the "stuff" and parks (or dumps) it at the front door of the tenant she had better be prepared to pay for them if and when she is sued.
The "she obviously does not want them any longer" part is a conclusion, not a fact, leading to an illegal act.