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    confused08 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 30, 2008, 12:09 PM
    Saving a relationship
    My girlfriend and I are on a break.she says she doesn`t know if she wants to marry me or not.she tells a friend or ours we are great together.I`ve treated her better than anyone else ever before.the friend told her too bad I`m not a different color.I know she loves me I can look into her eyes and see it. I don't know what to say or not to say to win her back... 3 years we`ve been together.
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    Jan 30, 2008, 12:54 PM
    What if I told you that when you look into her eyes, you see what you want to see? You wrote that "she says she doesn`t know if she wants to marry me or not". OK: what does she say about a date next Monday night, with you, at 7 PM? Who decided you were going on a break?
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    Jan 30, 2008, 02:20 PM
    Seems like your girlfriend is having a dilemma and you need to give her the time she needs to sort out her own feelings.

    Don't force her to be in a relationship she's not sure of. It would only cause both of you problems that should've been sorted out in the beginning.

    In the meantime, be a friend and be there if she needs anything. Maybe one day she'll realize that she can't be without you and you two can live happily ever after.
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