[Angela713]

I experienced the following with my 44-year old guy. His responses aren't very mature for someone his age. Or…could it be he is just trying to tell me he is not that interested?

(1) After a really good date, I sent him a flirty text message saying I really liked the way he laid his kisses on me the night before. After 2 days with no response, I asked him why he hadn't responded. His response was: "I didn't know what to say. I know I am making this harder than it should be, huh? You make me nervous."

(2) During a phone conversation, I asked why I hadn't heard from him in a couple of days. His response was: "I don't know...you always seem like everything is perfect". (What kind of answer is this?) :confused:

(3) I invite him to a co-worker's dinner party on a Saturday. We go and have a great time. I don't hear from him again until the following Tuesday and it's via email. It reads: "Thanks for inviting me out on Saturday. I really had a good time." He didn’t need to thank me for inviting him out. I just would have rather he called, rather than email because it seemed so impersonal.

:(

[ISneezeFunny]

Well.. he could be one of those guys who just doesn't call.

Question is, does he ask you to see him?

If it seems too one-sided, then yes... he may just not be that into you. But also, it could be inexperienced.

[HistorianChick]

Sounds like he may be shy... or, he may just be one of those elusive gentlemen!

This doesn't sound like immaturity on his part.