[amy321]

I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I want to stop seeing him. I don't know if I should stop see him because he really like my and I think I still like him. Me and him have done a lot together and his mom and dad like me and I like hang out with him and his family but his friends are stupid. But my friends and family don't like him and they are telling me to brake up. Me and him are a little different. If I brake up with him how should I tell him? Should I tell him in person or on the phone? Should I give him the ring he got me back? Should I even brake up with him? Or should I tell him what's wong and him and I will talk about it but I don't know if I should brake up with him.

[justcurious55]

Hm... well, since its you and him who are dating (not you and his friends or your family and him), maybe you should take a step back, forget everyone else's opinions for a minute and just think about how you feel about your relationship with him. If you decide that you still want to be with him but are still uncomfortable with some of your other issues, then definitely talk to him about it. If you do decide to break up with him though, I presonally think in person OR over the phone is fine. Anything but text or instant message (or anything similar like email or myspace) (I know from experience, that's a really awful way to get dumped... ) over the phone isn't as personal, so it might be more comfortable for you, because at leasts its not as impersonal as a text message. But I know some people say that breaking up should only be done in person.

[dansk]

OK...

Well.. Since it seems like you both are good together, do you want to break up only because of the family? You should really think about the overall situation.. the good things you both
Have together and if that makes you happy you should try to work things out.. but in the other hand if you think you need time on your own to think about things what you really want.. then you should definitely tell him..

For ex. Say.. listen I really like you and I think you're a great person but I really need time to think about what I want and where MY life is going.. can you please understand it takes two to be in a relationship and I don't want to rob you of that by being unsure of what I want.. so let me think about what I want and whatever decision I make.. know that it doesn't change the way I view you but its just ME finding what's best for me and my life."

Something along those lines.. thats just an example of what u can tell him.. be honest with him.. tell him if he really cares for you.. he will give you your space to figure your feelings out. Do not be harsh and DO NOT DO IT OVER THE PHONE.. my opinion the phone is the worst for these kinds of situation.. and You both seem to care for each other.. so its best to have something to eat and talk face to face.

Good luck in your decision. :)