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    sarah11282 Posts: 54, Reputation: 7
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    Jan 11, 2006, 03:53 PM
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    Can I just ask a question. You know the way girls always get emotionally involved in sex but to guys most of the time sex is just sex. But when you are in a relationship with someone and in love with them, for guys is sex still just a physical exercise full of enjoyment or something more?
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    Jan 11, 2006, 04:30 PM
    This depends on the guy. The way it should be is enjoyable to both yet an emotional bond to that person. There is no doubt about it that guys are different than girls. The emotional bond for a girl would be shown diefferently than a guy would/should show it. When a guy goes from girl to girl than it is just to see how many girls he can do it with. This is not what sex was meant for. Sex was meant to actually be one with the other person but society has diminished that thought. I hope this somewhat answers your question. I know there will be other posts coming so hang in there.
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    Jan 11, 2006, 05:46 PM
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    When guys are young and the hormones are raging I'd say sex is like a new game we are eager to play, especially since little Suzy sure looks good all of a sudden,and as we become more mature young adults then we start to just enjoy the new found freedom that comes with being a young male who is independent of the family structure.Sometimes when we are well raised we can actually be highly moral sweet caring human beings but sometimes we end up as mindless slugs who, very selfishly satisfy ourselves with no regards to any one else's feelings or needs!As we grow older and more mature we realize our feelings can go a lot deeper so we fall in love raise families and work and dedicate ourselves to providing for our offsrings,Now some of us grow up physically but do not quite mature to the level of responsebility needed to sustain relationships or take care of anyone.They barely can take care of themselves and are incapable of any motivation to do any hard work!This is only a general outline and I hope it answered your question!:cool:
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    Mar 31, 2009, 08:32 PM

    Guys are different enough from each other that we shouldn't be labeled as one like that. That being said, I realize that there are many men like that (some women also, though). Those people don't know what they are missing, though. I'll admit that there is something brazen and exciting about raw anonymous sex (but also a big chance of STDs, etc.). However, intimacy with love is something special. To be able to look into your lover's eyes and see that you are bringing her pleasure, (and you were really trying to), just heightens the arousal and intensity of my own libido and pleasure.
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    Apr 1, 2009, 05:56 AM

    This post is from THREE years ago, and the OP hasn't been back since August of 2006.

    Please pay attention to dates before answering questions.

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