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    Jan 23, 2008, 07:19 PM
    Feeling Lost about my Future
    Hello, I am a 22 year old female, born 7/31/1985 in Mineola, NY at 11:57 pm.


    Lately, I have been struggling with my career, my love life and a particular health issue. I am starting a new job tomorrow... will this workout? I am dating a person now that I have reconnected with from the past, will this workout? When will I meet the person I will spend the rest of my life with? Will I have children? I am feeling lost about my future and need to know that there is hope. Thank you all so much.

    Thank you,
    Arielle


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    Jan 30, 2008, 07:17 PM
    Hi Arielle,

    What a beautiful name! A person of your age will experience much during their lifetime as this world and dimension is for learning and thus, growing. With each new struggle comes Opportunity! I am being shown that you need to restore faith in your ability to overcome lack and need. With negative thoughts come negative results. Therefore, be sure to start that new job with only the most Positive thoughts you can think of. Some thoughts can be: "I AM A Success Already In This New Job!"; "This Position Brings Me the Perfect Situation In My Life Designed to Help Me!"; "I Can and WILL Offer Something Unique and Wonderful to My Job and To My Bosses!" Get the idea! Say this often throughout the day each and every day.

    You are full of foolish questions, my dear. If you have the kind of outlook that you are presenting here with such things as ".... will this workout?" and when you ask "When will I meet the person I will spend the rest of my life with?", you are already creating a spiral downwards for yourself and the other person. You see, you are not even giving yourself the chance to develop something meaningful in your life with this person you have known before that you are now seeing. You are already thinking of meeting the person to spend the rest of your life with (who is not even here at present). And while looking forward to something more interesting is many people's dream, then, it surely may not be the one you are now seeing as there is, apparently, nothing dynamic you have to say about him that would create the energy to try to work the relationship into something permanent. But I also sense that you really don't want that to happen deep down or right now. So, you are now creating the right energy to let that present guy go, within a short while. And he very well may, as there is no strength in the bond or fabric of your relationship according to your present beliefs and feelings.

    Children should be brought into the world when there is deep love and concern for one another as well as for the addition and extension of that love when you and your partner are ready. And again you are being negative when you 'have' to know if there is Hope. Know that there is ALWAYS hope unless you cancel that hope through your own negative thinking. So, it's all up to YOU! In essence, you create your own thoughts, thus you are creating your own future based on your way of thinking. Learn to be more Positive, Assertive, and a "Go-Getter" when you want something! You can do it, you just need to BELIEVE in yourself more and in that which you truly want to attract into your life.

    Many cheerful blessings to you! Now square those shoulders and lift that chin up...the world wants to see directly into those beautiful eyes, not at downward-looking eyes that express hopelessness, fear and despair. You CAN Do It! Each day when you wake up, say to yourself that you are Unique, Special, and Have MUCH To Offer to Those Who Attract You and Whom You Will Meet This Day. Believe it and again, as you believe, you will start the universe in motion to offer you your gifts and blessings with God's Special Love! Why? Simply because of one thing. Because you Deserve It!


    _______________
    God's Word is indeed *infallible*. It's man's mis-interpretation and re-interpretation of it that I am concerned about.

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