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miriwonders · Jan 22, 2008, 01:38 AM

We married just over a month a go and right from the start we starting fighting a lot over the smallest things that would become huge because of insults from both of us. We married after a month of knowing each other now I think we should have waited, I'm not sure I'm in love with him but he says he is in love with me, I try to talk to him about how I feel but he explodes into anger every time I mention, this might not work. I feel he likes to pull the I'm the good guy she's the bad guy act because he says he loves me but treats me like he doesn't. He is 21 and I'm 25 I met his mother not to long ago and she is nuts! And he is a lot like her she thinks marriage is forever and although I agree, I also believe that we should have waited and I'm not willing to accept a marriage made of lies and fights just because we said I do but on the other half I think I should just stay and see what turns out from it... I'm so unhappy I know I made a mistake but is there any way to fix this the right way? And now when we are intimate I can't seem to get turned on I simply don't go and when we try to forplay, there have been times we end up in fights and we don't do it at all! I'm so lost I don't know what to do anymore... help!

goelpunit · Jan 22, 2008, 04:12 AM

Hi, you had done your marriage in hurry!! One month is less time to knowing each other.. now at least you have discussed with your husband about your relationship... donot fight each other... because its create more gap b/w you... Just do one thing share your thoughts with marriage counseller... it will helps you... bye...

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JmeMum · Feb 12, 2009, 12:41 AM

I think the fact that you're asking for our advice and are willing to admit you made a mistake pretty much answers all your questions.sorry, but I think you have all the answers you need. Now the question is what are you going to do about it?

chowder3 · Feb 12, 2009, 06:03 AM

He is only 21 so he still does have a lot of growing to do so there is a chance you may be able to fall in love with that man in due time, however people usually do that while dating a person and being engaged to them for a long period.

Being that you've only been married for such a short period depending on where you live an annullment is an option that will wipe the slate clean, good luck.