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    Jan 17, 2008, 11:54 PM
    Who do you think I like more
    Okayy lets just say I like three guys... I'll lay that out for you. I'll tell you a bit about them and how I feel with each one and you can tell me who you think I like more.

    DYLAN
    Dylan is a really really close friend to me, I tell him absoulutely everything and I trust him with my entire heart. He did mention kissing me before but I'm not sure if he meant it as a joke or not. He and I are almost identical in the way we think. He said he really cares about me and if anything happened to me he'd cry... He also said he would give me a chance if I wanted to but he also has had intense feelings for my girlfriend Miranda since the 2005 and this 2008 he still likes her. He has kissed her 6 times before and he says he loves her but he always gets dumped by her because someone else comes along. He is so romantic and he loves to listen to people when they have things to say and he trusts me with everything too. He helps me feel better when I'm depressed and it doesent seem to make him like me less when I do, he always knows how to make me smile.

    Jacob
    I have liked Jacob from the moment we met or talked on the computer. He has such a straight forward mind and he doesent let it get between him friendships. I told him I liked him and he said wow that's intense but I have a girlfriend. He said he was sorry and he would date me if he didden't live outside my city. He did say he would if we ever got the chance to move closer. I love is gorgeous black hair and OMG lol sorry I could go on. He always knows how to make things funny when they are boring and he is a big sweetheart and I always think about him. I get really bad butterflies whenever I come around him. And when we are hanging out afterschool and were really bored as heck he brings me to the take out restaurant next door and pretends to eat me with a fork. And we walk around talking about the most random stuff. He hugs me purposly in front of other girls to make them jelous because they don't get hugs unless they know him which they don't often because he lives quite a while away. He says he doesent normally do long distance relationships but he loves friendships no matter how far they are. He cares about his friends more then himself most of the time and he is really cute and smart but not in the oh wow look I am so cut smart and funny kind of way. He loves improv and he works with it so well. He looks kind of emo by his appearance but he really is not at all he just has black hair. He is really thin and is exactly a foot taller then me last time I checked. He doesent care what people look like when he dates them, as long as they are a really sweet person on the inside, and he says the cuteness of a person would only be a bonus and it wouldent mean anything towards the person if they weren't because everyone is special and beautiful in their own way.. He is really sensitive and never gets mad. But if you ever catch him in one of those moody moments he gets over then quickly.
    I think about him a lot and he is so... so... AMAZING! I feel like I have known him for years and I really care about him. He told me once if he could decide something of a feature on a girl it would be eyes, he can't help but stare if a girl has beautiful eyes. And he also said that he has never seen this on people but that he thinks red eyes on a girl would be awesome, and that they would be the most beautiful things in the world... not just for the fact that she would be different but that she would be unique. And yeah I could go on and on but I'd rather not take up too much space.

    Brian
    I have known Brian since year 2000 and he was my best friend until 2005. He is thoughtful and doesent care what other people think of him hanging out with me because I'm not exactly what you call "popular". He is smart and cute in a way a lot of people wouldent find attractive... whats the word.. excuisite. That's the word. Back wher we were 6 years old I admitted I had a crush on him in the back alley where we used to play and he addmitted he liked me too. So we ran together back to my house because my sister called me in for dinner. I had this odd dream about him a few weeks ago... I dreampt that I was on his old porch and he was riding his bike in the rain and stopped in front of his old place to fit his helmet and that he had come back to it to visit people. There was thunder and rain crashing down everywhere and grey clouds were all I could see over head. I stood up and said his name.. well more like asked if it was him... and he said yeah and I ran over to him and kissed him. I don't know why but it felt so real. And the next few nights later I had another dream where him and I were going to school with each other again except high school and he had changed in appearance a lot and was really cute. I kissed him and he got kind of upset about it because he claimed not to be ready for a relationship yet and I said sorry and we made up and were friends just like before. It was really odd how real that kiss felt. And that's prettymuch Brian..

    Okayy guys I know it might be a lot to ask but I'm really stumped here, I'm crazy (or at least that how it feels) for three guys and I keep going off and on all the time wondering who I like more and I am really stumped... HELP PLEASE!
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    Jan 18, 2008, 01:42 AM
    I presume, first of all, that you're looking for a boyfriend, otherwise you wouldn't be trying to single out one of these three guys.

    It seems like your crush on jacob is purely hormonal. Whatever it is, do you think that you could be feeling this way about all three of them simply because they're guys and you want a boyfriend? Falling for someone, I think, is a special, un-replicable thing. That you're feeling it for so many different people is a bit strange.
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    Jan 18, 2008, 11:11 AM
    Find someone else other than one of these 3
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    Jan 18, 2008, 01:48 PM
    Honey, no one is going to be able to tell you who you like.

    You have to figure this out for yourself. Don't rely on your girlfriends or a virtual community to tell you who you like, listen to your heart.

    Good luck! :)
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    Feb 19, 2008, 02:44 PM
    You're welcome, sweetheart.

    Just remember, you are worth all the happiness you can imagine, the hunkiest guy you can dream up, and the most amazing, fulfilling, wonderful relationship you could ever hope for.

    Once you truly love yourself and believe that you are a spectacular person - both inside and out - you will be able to completely love that guy who is waiting for you.

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