[maram81]

Hi,

I am 26 year old female. After I gave birth to my daughter (5 months ago), I am having problem reaching a complete orgasm during intercourse. In other words, once I begin to reach my orgasm, it breaks up and I lose it. Just like losing a sneeze. Knowing that my husband is doing the best he can to help me reach it. I do not know if this is a physical or mental thing. Can you help me please?

[elena3117]

Try stay out of the 'game' for a while and do other things for a while with your husband.. your body is in a very strange period and need some time to overcome the pregnancy and the hormones of it

[simoneaugie]

The same thing happened to me. It resolved when I decided that I did want him in there. Do your kegel exercizes.

[Choux]

I'm trying to remember back to when that happened to me... I guess there just wasn't enough natural desire... too much a sense of more work.

I think a wise husband would treat his wife such that she isn't overwhelmed with work... work associated with a baby(huge), house work, and sex work. Ya got to talk to your husband about your feelings. I think he will agree to be a partner in your family endeavor/

I think you should get out of the house for sex even if you only go out in your backyard under a blanket. (Assuming a warm climate! Lol!)

Best wishes in the coming year,