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elena3117 · Jan 15, 2008, 03:24 PM

Is it my fault that everybody consider me as a good friend no matter what or worse they are not in relationship mood? I try so much to find the one (I'm not obsessed) but I cannot. I know that the more we're after something then it doesn't come. All I want is someone to make me feel loved. Where is my knight? Also how can I show somebody how I feel for him without freak him out? Is it wrong to have sex without being in a relationship and how can this (something like one-night-stand) end up in a relationship? Are there any chances?

Synnen · Jan 15, 2008, 03:26 PM

YOU have to make you feel loved.

No one else can do it for you.

And a one night stand turning into a relationship doesn't happen except in romance novels and silly movies.

You should find something that you love to do, and learn to do it really well. That will build your self-confidence, and put you in contact with people you have a common interest with to start with!

elena3117 · Jan 15, 2008, 03:37 PM

I am really confident and all I need is give love to somebody and mutuallity. Thanks for the one night stand response! It helped me understand a lot of things!

Synnen · Jan 15, 2008, 03:45 PM

Originally Posted by elena3117

i am really confident and all i need is give love to somebody and mutuallity. Thanks for the one night stand response! it helped me understand a lot of things!

Honey... if you NEED to give love--give it to a child. Give it to your family. Give it to the homeless, or the people at your church.

NEEDING to be in a relationship is a recipe for disaster. Believe it or not, neediness can be sensed by the opposite sex. And they run from it.

What you NEED is to be happy WITHOUT a man