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MandaBear0511 · Jan 12, 2008, 12:28 PM

How do I prove to my boyfriend I love him. It is kind of difficult to prove this because my dad is always on my case about how were getting to close to fast! Ilove him so much, and I know it is love! I need to prove to him I love him, and fast, before its to late! PLEASE HELP ME! I really don't want to lose him, I hve lost so much in my life and have overall delt with it, but if I lose him I don't know if I can deal anymore!

Bardonicus · Jan 12, 2008, 01:13 PM

If you two are truly in love with each other then having to prove it should be necessary. But then again I am a hopeless romantic and love making my woman feel special. I can suggest to post an add the local newspaper saying that you love him and what ever else then buy the news paper, circle your posting tie it with a bow and give that to him along with a card telling him to look on that certain page only if he loves you. (I did this for my ex girlfriend on valentines day. That should spark things up but please make sure that he feels the same way about you and remember. Don't put more into a relationship then you are willing to loose.

Bellagrace19 · Jan 12, 2008, 01:22 PM

How old are you? And does the guy feel the same way towards you? If he does then why are you trying to prove your love to him?

MandaBear0511 · Jan 12, 2008, 03:19 PM

Originally Posted by MandaBear0511

How do I prove to my boyfriend I love him. It is kinda difficult to prove this because my dad is always on my case about how were getting to close to fast! Ilove him so much, and I know it is love! I need to prove to him I love him, and fast, before its to late! PLEASE HELP ME! I really dont want to lose him, i hve lost so much in my life and have overall delt with it, but if I lose him I dont know if i can deal anymore!

I am 15, and we both truly feel this way, I know it is soooo stupid because I am young but, I know it is love!

Bellagrace19 · Jan 12, 2008, 03:48 PM

The best way that I found is to express yourself to him, just sit down and say okay this is going to sound crazy but... blah blah and just go with it. Let it all out, let him know that he comes first in your life..
Does he feel the same way?
Being so young you can't make someone love you...
I know what you are going through, I am 20 and dating a 35 year old!

MandaBear0511 · Jan 12, 2008, 03:57 PM

Yeah, he loves me, he's told me a million times, and he's proved it to me. Here's the thing, I broke up with him for like a day a while back, he kind of thinks I am going to again, and I am not! I swear! We'v been going out for like 8 months. When broke up with him I totally broke down, I realized I couldn't live without him! And I really did love him. He told me over the phone and in a letter that he still wanted to be with me, and the night of the day after I broke up with him we decided togther we still wanted to be together, and couldn't live with out each other! Without him I am nothing, seriosly, and it doesn't help that my dad keeps saying were getting to close and says we can't hang out A LOT!

Homegirl 50 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:01 PM

You say you love him, he either believes you or he doesn't. He is not hinting at sex is he? And I hope that's not what you're getting at.

Bellagrace19 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:03 PM

So why are you trying to prove to him that you love him...
You have to tell him, that in order for a relationship to work there has to be an equal amount of trust.
If that's not there, then no matter how hard you try it will not work.
To show your dad, that you are not too close, don't be mushy on your guy around him, or talk about him 24/7, but you and him will know how much you care...
Am I helping you in any way? Just ask whatever you need

MandaBear0511 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:06 PM

You're helping bellagrace19, and homegirl 50 he wouldn't ever, he is so nice and he necer pressure me to do anything at all! He is amazing!

Dana2007 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:11 PM

If the love is superficial then he will want you to prove it to him by spending money on him, having sex with him, following him where ever he goes, doing what ever he says to do, etc etc. Get the idea?'

The real proof comes when you are sick? Does he stay by your side and help you? Does he drive you to the doctor when you are too sick to drive?

If your car is in the garage, will he give you a ride to work? (and vice versa)

Does he respect you? (and vice versa)

Is he thoughtful and considerate of you? (and vice versa)

Does he encourage and support you? (and vice versa)

There are a lot of ways to prove to someone that you love them and it isn't necessarily with material things.

Make sure it isn't anxiety or withdrawal's you are getting when you are apart. That would only mean it is a sick love and not a healthy one

You might just be sort of panicking that you will lose him. If he loves you, he won't leave you.

Homegirl 50 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:11 PM

Originally Posted by MandaBear0511

You're helping bellagrace19, and homegirl 50 he wouldn't ever, he is so nice and he necer pressure me to do anything at all! He is amazing!

Well that's good to know.
It takes time. You broke up with him once, he has to feel secure again There is really nothing you can do but be loving and patient

MandaBear0511 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:13 PM

He does, he does, and he does, he is amazing!

MandaBear0511 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:14 PM

Thanks homegurl 50, that kind of help to ynderstand him on that part.

Homegirl 50 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:22 PM

May I ask why you broke up with him in the first place?

MandaBear0511 · Jan 12, 2008, 04:31 PM

I have no idea, I didn't mean to! It was a mistake! It happened sooo fast, and it will NEVER happen again!

Homegirl 50 · Jan 12, 2008, 09:51 PM

How do you not mean to beak up with someone? What was going through your mind?

Dana2007 · Jan 13, 2008, 01:15 AM

Just remember that love is not a feeling.

You have to care about each other.

If you don't love him, let him go and be happy .

MandaBear0511 · Jan 13, 2008, 08:18 PM

I do love him, and I am happy with him, how do I tell him this? I don't how I didn't mean to. By the way I am finally inviting him over for a night with the rents after 8 months of going out!

MandaBear0511 · Jan 13, 2008, 08:19 PM

Give me something to say that sounds meaningful!! Something that will sweep him off his own two feet!

Homegirl 50 · Jan 13, 2008, 08:58 PM

It isn't what you say, it will be your actions. I don't think youg boys are like girls, they don't need the fancy words.
You've invited him to meet your parents and just keep your cool. He has to trust that you are not going to loose your cool again and break up with him, althoigh I'm still not understanding how that happens, maybe he does not understand it either.
How old is he?