[avibhs]

This girl stays in my apartment and happens to be my friend's elder sister.she is from a good conservative indian family.I often visit them and we play games some time.I am madly in love with this girl,cannot stop thinking about her.my engeering entrance examination are coming in three months and I want to concentrate on studies but these days this girl seems more important than anything else on earth should I express to her my feelings?what happens if she creates a fuss and tell my parents about it?

[Chery]

Sounds like you are in conflict with strong moral conception and newly felt lust - maybe even for the first time in your life. You also have a career to concern yourself wíth - which your family is probably supporting you for and counting on your success. So.. now it's time to make a serious choice in your life and the only one who can do this is you. You might even be able to combine both in your life - taking one issue at a time to ensure a secure and happy future for the both of you.

Good luck, and keep us posted.

Mistakes are usually harder to live with than patience.

[lmnotok]

I don't think you should tell her because it creates confusion. If she likes you, its not so convenient fpr you guys to express feelings to each other. BUT if she doesn't like you then its going to be a big deal, you will push her far away, she may not even stay in your house anymore.

So just keep silent until one of you get out of the house. And watch her gestures, I think you can guess about 50% what she thinks of you.

[talaniman]

Go to the library and study for your exams if you need to. Leave everything else alone. Its not unusual for proximity to a fine female to bring out intense feelings in a healthy male. That doesn't mean acting on those feelings without a lot of time and plans, and oh yeah, an INVITATION from her she feels the same. Pass the exams first, worry about females later.