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    Jan 8, 2008, 06:48 PM
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    I still love my ex, I told her I love her, she told me the same. We went back out for two days, and she left me. She left me for a 11th grader and now I am falling in love with her friend. I asked her friend would she go out with one of her friends she said no. I told her would she go out with me, she said no cause I went out with her friend, about did not tell her nothing else.what should I do??
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    Jan 8, 2008, 07:14 PM
    Move on baby. This chapter of your life has come to an end. She is prepared to move on and now you must do the same. You can't force someone to be with you no matter how hard you try.

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    Jan 9, 2008, 04:37 PM
    You should just leave her alone. If she made it perfectly clear to you that she didn't want to be with you, and told you to forget about her, its not very likely that you will be able to change her mind. The best thing that you could do is move on. :)
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    Jan 11, 2008, 04:22 PM
    From personal experience, leave her alone, by annoying her you'll only aggrovate her more. Move on with your life, plenty more fish in the sea, you never know, maybe one day she'll realise what she's missing, and if you were meant to be together, she'll come back to you! Good luck x
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    Jan 11, 2008, 07:01 PM
    As everyone else is saying, leave her alone. She isn't the one for you. You need someone who cares about you the way you care about them and she can't do this. Let her live your life and you live yours. You said you told her that you'd change for her... don't EVER change who you are for anyone. If you lose sight of who you are than no one will ever be able to truly care about you because 'you' will no longer exist. Be yourself and find someone you can be yourself with. Let her go, you don't need her anyway.

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    Oct 12, 2009, 01:50 PM

    I'm sorry, but I don't think you yet know the meaning of love. FIRST RULE, don't date someone that your ex is friend's with. That's a big no-no. You need time to grow up and learn that relationships are sacred. And if you were really in love with her, you need time to heal. Don't just call up her best friend the next day and ask for a pity date.
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