[mjcecomc]

One of my friends, a girl, went through the breakup of a serious relationship about 6/7 months ago. I, along with my friends have been supporting her. Recently though, she started to get very flirty with me. It started with some flirty text messages after a night out, then lots of contact over the Christmas break and the flirting has carried on. When I've tried to talk to her properly about what's going on, she doesn't respond. I asked her if she wanted to go out for a drink to chat about it, but she hasn't responded! I do like this girl, in fact I think she's great but she is also a very close friend and I'm not really sure what to do next. I thought maybe I should do nothing and if she really is interested, things will develop over time?

What do you think?

[TrueFaith]

Personaly I never ask girls out :) for fear of them saying no hehe.. I may lose out on a lot of things but normaly they ask me out.

I think you should play it cool. Just be there for her if she needs you. Mean while do other things. Don't make you're her life.. Your life..

Do your own thing. And if she flirts with you next time. Say something like.
You carry on flirting like this, and I just might think you like me.

That will probable shock her. Or she will laugh either way it shows your cool about it and take it as a joke. :) if and when you get into a relationship then you can take it serious but for the whole flirting stage enjoy it :) and don't think 2 hard

Also remember she is on the rebound and people that go into relationships after a big brake. Well the out come is hardly good :) so give it time

Good luck

Regards

[talaniman]

Don't get your hopes up, or be confused. She is grateful, but that hardly translates into relationship. You know she is still healing, and you are there, so be gentle, but firm, and keep YOUR distance for now. I also thinks she knows she is not ready, as by her responses, to your gestures of interest.