[LifePaparazzi]

[F] In 1999 my husband was divorced from his ex. She was given their former home, with a clear understanding that it would have to be taken out of my husbands name. Since then we have been to court at least 4 times, on this topic.

The next court order clearly state that she must have it out of my husbands name no later then Fib. 2002. It did not happen. She even had tenants living in it, as she now lives in a nother state. When these tenants did not pay rent, she did not make the house payments. The home nearly went in to foreclosure. We had to pay to save his credit record, then take her to court again, to get the money back.

After yet another trip to court, she was specifically told to put the house up for sale, using realtor, signs, newspaper etc. Again, this did not happen. Numerous times the house payment was late or only partial. Despite the fact that the court orders clearly stated that she is to hold him harmless and in no way effect his credit record negatively.

In the mean time, there is a custody battle going on too. The kids are bounced around for several years. They went back to her nearly 3 years ago, after she got several people to blatantly lie in court, and her attorney had any previous information blocked. Since her husband stood accused of Child molestation and abuse, she had given us custody, when all the experts were in court, to keep the case from being heard by her family present that day.

Since the children have been back with her, she has violated visitation order constantly and then told my husband, if you don't pay child support and med. Expenses on time, she would not make the house payment.

More time passed. Our personal home's mortgage went to an adjustable loan. However, we were unable to obtain re-financing for it, because my husband still had the other home in his name and his credit rating had dropped considerably, due to all the collection actions against his former marital home. In short, we lost our home a few months ago, as payments rose to twice the cost. Due to this we had to move and my husband had to change jobs, now making less money.

His ex. Made one half hearted attempt to list the home with a little hole in the wall realtor. She even claimed to have a buyer for it, two months ago. She demanded that my husband call the mortgage co. to have documents sent. He did.. nothing ever happened.

About a months ago we got a letter telling us the home was being foreclosed on now. The mort. co. told us that his ex had called and said she would not make any more payments, and to foreclose on it, since he was behind on child support. (First time ever since 1999)

We went to file for bankruptcy, but were told we could not do that either, as he is now behind of child support. (Remember his salary was cut in half, due to having to move)

There is still more going on, with her refusing to meet us half way between where she and we live. She makes us drive all the way to the old meeting location. This is an extra 2 hours on the road for the children, each visit. Now she tells us, NO more visitation at all, until we take her back to court. She is unhappy with the new medical insurance we have to pay for, out of my disability money. Even though it covers everything required by court order, she would have to change doctors, and it is thus unacceptable to her.

In closing, I need to mention that I became disabled 3 years ago. His ex had her attorney make the judge have us psychological evaluated. It cost us over $5000. She also had MY medical records subpoena for court and the judge allowed it, after hearing more of her truly outrageous lies and crocodile tears.

My husband has joined custody, but if we don't tow her line, she does more and more evil things. The children hate her and are begging to talk to the judge too, as they know she is a liar.

She has ruined our life, and continues to do so. Financially we are totally broke and just a breath away from becoming homeless, all due to her. Oh, and just so you know, she left him for someone she met on the internet.

Help, I will die if we become homeless, due to my many health problems. Where can we turn for help? We are just honest hard working people, that never hurt a soul. Exactly when was the law passed that said, men need to be dumped on all the time. Where are the fathers right here?

[Fr_Chuck]

Who told you that you could not file bankruptcy ( not on child support of course but on the other debts) You should have done that years ago o the house you did not have.
Next of course if you had an adjustable mortgage that is no ones fault but yourself, you should never bought one on a ARM if you were not able to afford higher payments

And of course when he made a lot less money you went to court and got the child support lowered.

So take her back to court,