[Punkrock1992]

OK guys I'm only 15 years old yeah young I know but... ive never been good with the whole dating girls thing I usually wait for the ones that like me to come to me

But here's the story with my girlfriend or ex whatever we have been going out for pretty much 3months it would be 3months on the 10th but she was being kind of mean to me lately and well I made a few wrong turns I guess I told my friends what she says and does to me and well.. one of them... talked smack about her or to her and well she yelled at me.. and I was stuck in between.. so this friend of mine that was fighting with her.. said I should just break up with her so does one of my other friends think the same cause she's being a real b#$ch to me but that's cause she's mad at stuff at me for the whole problem with my friend
So.. I called her today her mother picked up the phone.. I told her what my reason for calling was.. which my reason was I was going to break up with her... cause I thought there was no other way.. but.. I talked to her I asked her what's it going to be she asked me what I want and I wanted to stay in the relationship cause I loved it and I love her so I asked her if she wanted to and she said yes.. so I was pretty good the rest of the day... so I get home I check my e-mail and I get a message from her.. that we should break up cause its not working out
So I talk to her.. on aim for a while and she's saying that she was not ready she needs time and I thought she dumped me but she actually wanted a break which I'm thankful for but... its a break.. and I'm just standing here with open arms and she might not even come back to me.
Her friend which I was talking to for a little said.. that she was planning on breaking up with me anyway and I asked her when she said this... she said.. that she was saying it everyweek we were going out which yeah I have no clue why I'm writing this here but... all my friends think its good that me and her brokeup or taking a break
But... I love her... so much I know there is many fish in the sea but she's one of a kind she may be mean to be sometimes but.. I love her and main reason for all this is... cause her mom told her that I was going to breakup with her that's what the main reason is I think and... also probably cause I'm usually sad or worried around her or depressed so during this long winterbreak I really took the time to think about this and well I did I just have to change for the better which I was going to do and I was going to prove to her that I can be more then just a sad little emo kid and... I lost that chance I can still do it but she's not ready for a boyfriend yet.

So any type of advice or help or anything I'm all ears ask me questions about this problem I'll answer them I just typed whatever I could really think of at this time.

[talaniman]

Your prolonging the inevitable, and your to young to be so stuck on this dead relationship
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You will have many chances at dating, if you can move on and enjoy the dating experience.

[EuRa]

It sounds like it's going to be a lost cause. The more you chase and pursue this one, the further and further you are going to push her away. If you give her space and time, she might get her feelings straightened out and come back to you.

BUT... you are just 15 man. If you can get 1 girl, you can get another! Part of the fun at your age is mindless flirting. I know it might suck to let this one go, but if you do, you will be better off.

Or you could chase the hell out of her, which she will end up hating you for, then you will be crushed, but at least you will learn and move on. Put yourself in her shoes... think REALLY HARD about what it's like to have a guy chase after her, especially if she doesn't want that right now.

[Punkrock1992]

well I'm not chasing after her right now.. im kind of just waiting and yeah she said she needs time and space see my main problem I guess is that... all the girls I dated came from school.. I really have a problem with actually starting a relationship with just some random girl I meet out on the street or anywhere

[talaniman]

That's something you will learn. For now have fun with the ones you know. Eventually you'll learn, and be very comfortable and confident, around all the females.