[max52989]

my bro as know this girl for since he was in the 6th grade and now he 15 and she 16 they try go out many times but only last for a day. The funny thing is there the best of friend but I know that both of them have feeling for each other but there have both share the feeling a lot times. OK this what happening she went out with this guy for three months then he move up with is dad in Ohio for sometime then break up with her and as her heart broken for the 3rd time. After all the mess with him my bro try to get with her again and she start to fell in love with my bro but she think that she goes out with him that won't work out.then week go the x call her and said that he going to visit is mom for Chirstmas and 3 day after and ask her to go out again after the x break her heart but she said yes.when this happen and my bro found it out it torn him up after she said that she fall love with my bro then goes out with the x that my bro hate but respect her because they are B.F.F. (best friend with feeling).the x and now her BF leave to go back to live is dad in Ohio for a other six month then come back to see her.she on the dude like shack of potato but as a bad feeling that he going cheat or wost break up again.What should him do?what should she do?should my bro go after her or not?or be just good BFF.:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

[Bluerose]

You are a good sister to be so concerned for your brother and his friend. I think your brother should just be a good friend to her for now. It sounds like she is going to need one. Sooner or later she is going to decide for herself whether she wants to spend half her time waiting for some other guy or open her eyes and see what is right in front of her. They are still very young. If your brother can get by with just being a very good friend the future might hold something much brighter for them both.