Yes, why did someone say it was terrible? The first answering post from macman is accurate in that, just about anything is awkward until you've had some practice. For me, at first, the guys have no idea what to do. And I had no idea how to tell them they were doing it wrong. It took some practice and good communication.
Mouth, lungs (humming) and fingers, used correctly can be an extremely intense experience. Your boyfriend would do well to watch and feel your reactions, breathing, skin temperature and stuff while he tries different things. Don't be afraid to gently direct him. Don't be like my sister-in-law who after 6 years of marriage finally told him, "you know, you're licking in the wrong spot."
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