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heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 08:16 PM

Hello everyone!

I wrote once before and stated that had sex on dec 1st then I had got my period on dec 5then had sex on the 9. I am due for my period jan 1st. And today is dec. 23rd.

I have been having stomach pains and constipation for like 2 or 3 weeks... my boobs feel funny on and off...
Today I felt nauesa on and off,and I felt it like this a week ago. I have not thrown up, but sometimes I feel like I may. I don't know if its nerves or what. I've had gas stomach pains for about a week. I also feel some agida sometimes...
I'm fustrated about this.
Is it too soon to start feeling pregnancy symptoms.. its probably only PMS...
I need to know what the earliest symptoms are and if I'm in deep trouble...

Someone, anyone.
HELP.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 23, 2007, 08:27 PM

Could be either, hard to tell, if you had unprotected sex then you can of course always be pregnant.

heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 08:30 PM

Yes true... but I am also ovulating and I know that is a sign of pregnancy in the 3rd week. This sucks.

J_9 · Dec 23, 2007, 08:51 PM

Symptoms of pregnancy and premenstruation are next to impossible to tell apart. Unfortunately, you now are playing the waiting game. You need to wait until you miss your next period then test using first morning urine.

Originally Posted by heythere22

i am also ovulating and i know that is a sign of pregnancy in the 3rd week.

You confuse me here. Ovulation is not a sign of pregnancy, that is when the egg is released so that you are fertile enough to get pregnant.

heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:05 PM

I see... so if I am ovulating, I am obviously getting my period and I am not pregnant? Hmm... but my stomach is awfully gurgly... I am due in like a week in a half though.. I don't want to wait to take the test... I feel like I want to know rite this second! Lol.. I know its impossible, but if I take the test tomorrow will I get a decent result?

You really think I may be pregnant?? (I know anythings possible)

J_9 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:12 PM

Ovulation is when your body releases the egg that may or may not get fertilized by sperm and produce a fetus (baby).

Just because you are ovulating does not mean you are getting your period, it means that you are able to get pregnant.

If your stomach is gurgly you could be hungry, you could have a stomach flu, etc.

You are due in a week and a half... it is WAY too early to test. If you take the test tomorrow you will get a negative result whether you are pregnant or not.

I don't know if you are pregnant or not. There is no way to tell at this point. Unfortunately you are in the waiting zone and have to wait until you miss your period for about a week, which puts you at 2 1/2 weeks, to test to get the most accurate result.

heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:18 PM

My stomach pains have been around for about a week or 2 now... sometimes they are sharp lower pains and then I pass gas or burp and it eases up... so who knowss.

Thanks so much for the help... can I write back here to you in a week or so... maybe you can help me out?

I am 21 and can't be pregnant nor can I even tell anyone I have been having sexxx :0

J_9 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:21 PM

You can write back whenever you feel the need. If I'm not here, we have others who are very knowlegable.

If you had sex, you can be pregnant, sorry to say it that way, but sex = babies... plain and simple. I don't know where you come from, but most people 21 years old are having sex and/or married.

Are you using protection of any sort? And, please, don't tell me the "pull out method" as that is not a form of birth control.

heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:27 PM

Haha. See the thing is... its complicated... I was going out with this guy, but this whole sex thing was.. how shall I say... a little forceddd on his part. We are currently separated. I did not want to do this with him we only went out for like 2 weeks and I wanted to get to know him first.. all he wanted was sex and I couldn't get him off me. Lol... I mean it wasn't rape, but ummm I didn't want this. I think he used a condom.

I know you think its weird... but id rather wait to have sex exactly for this reason of chancing pregnancy... I am currently in school doing very well and on my way to having a successful music therapy career... I don't need s like this. Now it's the holidays and I have been very upset.

Whew. Okk... well now that I got that out... sex scares me for this reason. Id rather be married.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 23, 2007, 09:30 PM

If you did not want it, then it was rape

Also sorry not wanting to sound hard, don't mean it that way, but you think he used a condom, you should have seen him open it, and put it on

heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:34 PM

I'm pretty sure he did... its not like he was drunk and forgot... sooo...

J_9 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:37 PM

He either put it on or he didn't. You were there, you should know.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 23, 2007, 09:38 PM

Sadly you wll find for some stupid reason men don't forget, they just don't do it, unless the girl tells them they have to. Hopefully he was responsible, but if he was somewhat forcing it, I don't know.
Well that is water under the bridge, please always stay in control of your own body, if you don't want to, don't ever. It is always your choice.
And always protection unless you are wanting that risk.

J_9 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:41 PM

Hun, I forget, but how old are you? 21?

heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:44 PM

Okie dokie.

Since it was forced, I wasn't completely thinking about that... many things were running through my mind I didn't think we'd end up actually... doing it.

Its OK... I shall wait it out. Its all I can do at this point.

I completely regret those 2 and a hlaf weeks.

This is beatt.

heythere22 · Dec 23, 2007, 09:45 PM

Yes 21... y?

heythere22 · Dec 24, 2007, 08:32 AM

Thanks for the help though... even though my relationship is besides the point... all we have to worry about on this thingy is being pregnant. I just had to put my story out there because I haven't told anyone... anyhoo... I gg... merry christmas to all and happy holidays!!