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    XYZZZZZ Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 6, 2007, 11:51 PM
    Will I get him back?
    Well I was in d relationship for d past 5 months.. but in between these 5 months we broke off 3-4 times and then again we patchd up... my boyfriend was serious for me for initial one month.. but he demanded physical relationship which I denied to gve him... But.. den I gne back to him and patch up.so on
    But since 1 mnth he is in ma hometown and we never met.. bcz he gt interested in other gals.. as they were ready to gve him physical relationship... I want him back... wil I get him...

    My date of birth is 7-8-1985
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    Dec 7, 2007, 05:27 AM
    If you do get him back, demand a physical relationship from him. That way, if the two of you start talking about marriage you will know what kind of man he is. If you''re not comfortable getting physical with him, I suggest you let him go. He has made it clear that sex is very important to him. Maybe it's more important than a monogamous relationship with just one woman? He may be attractive, but not worth your time.
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    Dec 7, 2007, 05:30 AM
    I cannot see this working out at all. You both have different ideas of the physical relationship. He wants sex and can get that from other women. If he cannot wait with you, then why would you want him back? The relationship is not balanced.
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    Dec 7, 2007, 06:37 PM
    Find someone with your values. If you try getting him back by giving him what he wants he might leave again. If he wasn't interested in you for you that will NOT keep him!
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    Dec 7, 2007, 08:05 PM
    It's not that they shouldn't save themselves because of because it is good to have values and not do it because of the convenience of because.
    Girls don't need to be taken advantage of and used either. She said that he 'demanded a physical relationship' and even sex IN a marriage that is falling apart it will not hold a marriage together if the guy isn't interested in HER and from what I gather that is what the OP wants.
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    Dec 8, 2007, 10:21 AM
    But friends.. I want him back.. bcz I love him... I couldn't study because of this.. m gng through trauma... howcan I let him go... he was mine...
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    Dec 8, 2007, 10:41 AM
    BUT What is the point IF HE doesn't want you back??
    What you going to do, say okay we'll have sex and he comes running back
    Then afterwards decides he STILL wants to be with the other girl(s) anyway??

    Sex is N0T the glue to repair a relationship --IT D0ESN'T WORK!!
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