WHat do I do with this boy?

Wishing4dabest · Dec 6, 2007, 10:44 AM

Ok I just got out of a relationship with this boy and he is always in my mind. HE talks to a whole bunch of girls but I feel sorry for him because he is a little slow. I really do love him and he sometimes speaks to me and sometimes don't. I try to get over him but I see him everyday and he causes drama between other boys I speak to. What do I do? My friends keep telling me to get over him but I can't I feel that me and him should be together and he still loves me. All these other girls don't know him like I do and don't treat him right. Please help me with the answer I want to hear

Homegirl 50 · Dec 6, 2007, 11:41 AM

If you care about him so much, why did you break up with him?

Wishing4dabest · Dec 6, 2007, 12:01 PM

Well he broke up with me. We broke up every once in a while when he would get in his moods of he wants to be by hiself he doesn't deserve me and he would feel likei was tooo good for him. But I have no idea why we broke up our relationship was OK and it was very intresting I just don't get men these days

sadblue · Dec 6, 2007, 12:28 PM

I know what your going through girl that happened to me but it was different he didn't go school. Maybe you should try again with the relationship but if it doesn't work out then maybe you should forget about each other. Or just talk him its up to you its your decision I know it will go well with you later on... :)

Homegirl 50 · Dec 6, 2007, 02:30 PM

Originally Posted by Wishing4dabest

well he broke up with me. we broke up every once in a while when he would get in his moods of he wants to be by hiself he dosent deserve me and he would feel likei was tooo good for him. but i have no idea why we broke up our relationship was ok and it was very intresting i just don't get men these days

Then leave him alone. Sounds to me like the relationship was kind of rocky any way. He is probably doing better than you think he is. He could be happy on his own. It sounds to me you feel sorry for him more than love him.

nkychic · Dec 6, 2007, 09:51 PM

The key sentence in your question is "tell me the answer I want to hear". Well what you want to hear is that everything is perfect. You can go back to him, he will take you back, he is miserable without you... blah blah blah. Now your friends are telling you what you need to hear. They know you better than I do. Why ask a complete stranger when the people you trust are telling you what you need to do. Forget about this guy for a while. If it's meant to be, it will be. You said he starting things with the guys you talk to? That right there is a sure con to add to the list. He is trying to control you even though you aren't going out. Why would things be any better if you were going out again? Think about it girl. You know the answer to your own question you just don't want to face the truth. Give him a break and live your life. Again, if it's meant to be it will be.

<3 Leslie