[Juliya08]

Hi, I'm involved with 2 people at this period of my life. I have been with one guy for almost 3 yrs.. never had any sexual relationship with him. And as things were going bad with me and him, I happened to find this wonderful guy and he felt in love with me and was very of my interest.. I like everything about the 2nd guy but I also am in love with the 1st guy. The second guy it has been 8 months. I am talking to both at the same time. They both kind of know about it. The second one knows and the 1st one I cannot dare tell him that I am still involved with that guy that I met while we had broken up. The second guy arranges a lot of stuff like marriage and so forth. His educated and is living over seas. He is graduating with his bachelors degree in bussines administration and may go for his masters and ph.d. while the first one had a much more struggling life and had to work a hard job to support his family. The 2nd guy is my age. And the 1st guy is 6 yrs older than me. I am very connected to both. I don't know what to do help me. And I care about bothh a lot. More about the 1st than the 2nd.. and I have a very strong chemistry with both when it comes to sexualy being attracted to them. I never kissed or slept with any of them still a virgin. But there are many ways to prove such things other than having ssex.. what should I doooooo? And my family would have a hard time accepting both of them. :confused: lotssssss of pressure here!! Thanks

Julia

[Homegirl 50]

Why don't you break up with both of them and leave yourself free to explore other options.
If your family is going to be opposed to both of them, is there really a future there?

[talaniman]

Decisions, decisions!! That's what life is about. Sorry only you can make the choice as to the one you prefer.