[Queen0804]

I really love my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 years. I broke my virginity with him when I was 18, and after a while. Things weren't good between us so we decided to get a break and so I kind of start to date another guy for a year and became sexually Intimate with him and really like it a lot. I never enjoyed my boyfriends sex because I never felt satisfied with him and with this other guy HE ROCKS MY WORLD! Now that my boyfriend and I are together and I dearly love him and don't want 2 lose him yet don't enjoy the sex. I don't know what to do because my boyfriend wants to have sex after a long day of cuddling, kissing and caressing and I totally change the subject and jump on other stories. And he doesn't like it when I do that. I tried talking to him and telling I don't want to have sex because it's a SIN, and I also tried other ways but he just won't get it. I am scared to tell him the truth which is HE IS NOT GOOD IN BED. It would hurt him big time. On the other hand I get my sexual needs from the other guy who pleases me very much for almost about a year now. And I don't know what I would do if my boyfriend found out, I don't want to be a cheater but a girl has got to do what she got to do. My friends always said if a man is not good in bed why be with him and waste your energy on him, I never believed it till now... Any suggestions...

[J_9]

You need to be honest with him. He probably doesn't know what you like. When the two of you are intimate, show him what you like, tell him what feels good and what doesn't. If you continue down this path, your relationship is liable to wind up in the toilet, so to speak.

Honesty is by far the best policy.

Whoa, you are cheating on your boyfriend? I take back all I said. Dump him, you are putting your health, as well as his at risk. What if you find out the other dude gave you and STD, and then you have to explain it to your boyfriend? What if you end up pregnant?

While your boyfriend may not be the best at sex, he deserves to be treated better than you are treating him.

[Queen0804]

I never had unprotected sex with any one in my life. I am scared of disease so I am real careful with things like that. I check myself every 3 months and thank god I am HEALTHY!

[J_9]

Regardless, your boyfriend deserves a woman who is true to him, not cheating. It would be better for him if you just broke up with him so that you can have some good sex.

[statictable]

Please do yourself and your boyfriend a huge favor and leave him. He deserves more than you can give and you deserve more than he can give and lets face it, sex is so much better than love and trust.