[Sistaskeeper24]

OK I don't get it. I am a good man, that I am always told and I do right by people. But why is it because my sex drive is not huge women always say,"your not attracted to me or you dont love me" or something else dump that is clearly not true.I mean is it not possible to have a person that cares about you that does not want to have sex with you all the time? No I am not cheating and no I am not falling out of love. I just don't like doing it 24/7 I like for it to be special not for it to be a routine. Am I wrong for that?

[JoeCanada76]

No your not wrong for that. Everybodies sex drives are different and communication and understanding is key in any relationship. Have you explained exactly what you have said here? If not, then maybe it is time that you do.

[helpdave]

I agree with Jesus's answer to a certain degree. You seem like you understand yourself pretty well and if you and your partners libido is different than it has to come down to an evaluation of what is the most important thing for you and your relationship. Love and companionship doesn't mean that you have to have sex all the time, unlike the pop magazines such as cosmopolitan would have you believe!
You just have to talk about it and explain to her that it is not for the lack of love and wanting to be with her, it's just that you don't feel like it. Women have been using this since the dawn of time, so it is your duty as a man to stand up for what men want. Equality right! Hehehe

[kiki_doki]

No I don't think you are wrong at all! You are right, it shouldn't be regimented and you shouldn't feel abnormal if you don't want it all the time... its not attractive when people are on heat all the time anyway! Help dave is right I blame the media for this pressure that is placed upon men to perfom on que... there is more to a great relationship then just sex, obviously sex has to be part of it but its not the be all and end all! I also think that intimacy that isn't of a sexual nature has a lot to be said for!!