[cutie08]

OK so I still like my ex a lot and everyone says he still likes me even his best friends and he always talks to me on line and over text and we still hangout sometimes and yesterday online he asked if I would give him head and I said I donno and then he asked if we could be friends with benefits and I said yes.and I asked him if he still likes me and he said he did my friend is trying to hook us bac up and wheneveri see him he stares at me.we are like perfect for each other and the reason we broke up is because we all got confused biut who was giving him a ride home and my mom had said she would but then by the time he had to go home she said she changed her mind so he didn't have a ride and so he thought I lied to him and I didn't I explaned it to him and he exepted my opology so we are good with that but I donno what to do please help asap thanks

[Fr_Chuck]

Time cures all things,

If your relationship is so poor that he will get upset when something happens, you don't have one at all anyway. Esp one where sex should be invovled.

So best bet, wait five years and you most likely will not even remember this event and most likely this jerk. He is willing to make up so he can have some sexual relationshiop which he is missing, Does not sound like he misses you all that much.

[JoeCanada76]

It sounds to me that you are young in age. It sounds to me just leave things alone for now. You are confused and do not know what to do, so my advice is do not do anything right now. Cool off.

Joe

[DJ 'H']

I went out with a guy at 17yrs old. After we split I still really wanted to be with him and he lead me to believe he felt the same and there was a chance for us. But it was just all about sex. He took advantage of my feelings just so he could have sex whenever he wanted. He was seeing other girls and even got with someone in front of me one night. You can imagine how I felt. He would also get mad at me for stupid things.

This really is not worth pursuing and you will only end up really hurt at the end of this. Take control and let go. It's hard but you will get through it. If he really does want to be with you then he will prove himself to you and do whatever it takes to get you back. If not then he will just go elsewhere. Blokes like that are really not worth it. Don't settle for him when you can do so much better for yourself.

[fredg]

Hi, Cutie,
"Be friends, with benefits"??
This boy is using you.
There are so many new boys to meet everyday, that eventually, you will find one who respects you, cares for you, and treats you like the lady you are.
Be VERY careful with sexual things. 40% of all girls in the US are pregnant before they are 20 yrs old. Do you want to be one of them? I don't think so.
Sexual diseases are everywhere, so please be careful.
I would meet new boys, and it won't be long before you forget about this one.
I know it hurts, but you are being "taken for granted" and used. Don't listen to "second hand" gossip from someone else, whether they are saying he likes you, doesn't like you, whatever. The only truth is from a person themselves, if they are being honest with you.
I do sincerely wish you the best.

[nymphetamine]

Oh god honey! Oh hell no! Tell that man to take a hike!

[JoeCanada76]

Crankiebabie

Well put, wanted to rate you but I am not allowed. Well here goes, you absolutely hit it on the nail. So to speak.

Joe

[nymphetamine]

Is everyone having rating trouble?mine says I've given too much but I haven't rated anyone today at all. I have tried though. Something isn't right.

[JoeCanada76]

Something weird spooky is going on this site.
SPOOOOOKY. Scary. What is happening. Who knows. :confused: :confused: :mad: