[lovelandXlove]

I am 15 years old and my boyfriend lives in St. louis. Which is about 400 miles from me. And just recently my family caught me having phone sex with him. My family is as religious as they come. They flipped out and told me I was corrupted. My mom bought me books about religion and sexuality. Currently I'm not allowed to talk to my boyfriend after 9:00 or in a room by myself. There has to be a family member present. And I have been grounded for the past 5 weeks from it. I don't find anything wrong with this. At least were not doing the real thing. I just really don't know what to do about this. I don't find it fair at all. They refuse to trust me. It really kind of offends me. Helppp?

[ScottGem]

I'm afraid you aren't going to get the help you want here. Because I think your parents took the correct action.

That you were intimate with your boyfriend ,even over the phone, indicates that you have or would be intimate with him in person.

What you need to do is work on regaining their trust and that means talking to your parents calmly. It also means showing that you understand what you were doing was NOT appropriate for a 15 yr old and showing remorse.

I think that are being very fair in allowing you to talk with your boyfriend at all.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes parents are correct 100 percent, a 15 year old girl has no business having phone sex with anyone. They still allow you to talk to him, whichis more than most parents would be doing at this point, So you should really be thankful your parents are as nice as they are being.