[crushedovernover]

Ok so I'm goingthrew a custody battle and I usedm why ex new boyfriend name in the pappers. My question is do you think me using his name and dragging him into it will push him away from her. That is not my intention that is why I feel bad. But I used his name because my ex took our son out of the country to go and stay with ihm in a dif country. Do you think he will stick by her side threw this or run. He will be flown down for questioning. Would you?

[kiki_doki]

Hello, well if you guys have a child together and she left the country with your child to go and see him I think its highly relevant to use his name... I don't think he will leave her for it, but if he does you've done her a favour as at the first sign of a difficult situation he pulls out!! But if I were you I wouldn't even be concerned with such matters, what you did was justified!! Its your child too!!

[s_cianci]

Whether it'll push him away from her isn't your problem so don't worry about it. You're fighting for your son and that's your only problem. If your ex's boyfriend suffers ramifications because he was part of your ex doing something improper (i.e. taking your son out of the country without your permission) then so be it. If in fact your ex broke the law and/or violated a court order by doing what she did then her boyfriend should have had no part of it. It's the duty of every citizen to respect the law and that includes when the situation doesn't directly impact the person in question. The truth is the boyfriend dragged himself into it, you didn't drag him into anything so don't feel bad about it.

[cerisa]

Sorry crushed, in my sad experience with divorces (My daughters-I have not been divorced) The exes and their partners get into an 'us against them' mode and just get into it to win. Cianci is right though, he got himself into it.