[patty86]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating basically ever since we first got into college and we been officially together for a year now... he says now that I drive him crazy because I ask him so many questions and he hates that like questions such as if I ask him more than once where he is when he already told me, questions about our relationships I don't know soooo many questions and I do a lot but I can't help it I don't know what's wrong with me, my mom asks me so much questions I guess that's where I get it from, I don't want to be like my mother, and I try to give him space but I can't because I'm used to seeing him every single day and so I ask him lets see each other tonight and such and he gets mad when I tell him I want to do suttin but then I change it... I'm trying to change my ways basically trying to stop asking so much questions and all of that and see him less hopefully our relationship can be as stronger before the month ends and I juss don't know where to start how to do it, ugh I hope someone understands :confused:

[simoneaugie]

Why do you ask him questions? Do his answers help you somehow? Figure out why you do it. If you stop asking him about stuff, how will it make you feel? Will the two of you still get together and talk? Does silence make you uncomfortable? Do you really need to know the answer, or are you filling up the quiet with words?

[linds03]

Is the reason you ask so many questions because you don't trust him or have jealousy issues?