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    Nov 3, 2007, 10:39 PM
    Is telling her a good idea?
    Ok so I met this girl about to 5 months ago and so far we have become the greatest of friends. She is everything I look for in a girl and lately Ive been wanting to tell her how I feel. The problem is she has a boyfriend over in Iraq and things are not going to well between them. She's also been very touchy with me lately and Ive been the same way. The problem is that the boyfriend is in Iraq and I feel real bad for the guy for being over there and might even end losing his girl. I want to tell her but I don't want to be THAT guy, you know? So what should I do?
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    Nov 3, 2007, 10:49 PM
    In my opinion, the worst you can do is not telling her. Who knows, maybe she shares some of your feelings but may feel the same way you do about the boyfriend in Iraq... or she may even have developed feelings for you even though she still might have them for her boyfriend. So I suggest that either way you get that off your chest and you will feel a whole lot better. If you fear she will retract from your friendship once you tell her, it may be because she might not be the girl for you or maybe it's a matter of waiting and giving her some time. Of course there's other options but these are probably some.
    Perhaps you should just follow your heart on this.
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    Nov 4, 2007, 08:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Mikey88
    Ok so I met this girl about to 5 months ago and so far we have become the greatest of friends. She is everything I look for in a girl and lately Ive been wanting to tell her how I feel. The problem is she has a boyfriend over in Iraq and things are not going to well between them. She's also been very touchy with me lately and Ive been the same way. The problem is that the boyfriend is in Iraq and I feel real bad for the guy for being over there and might even end losing his girl. I want to tell her but I dont want to be THAT guy, you know? So what should I do?
    Be a friend and be supportive. The field is not level.
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