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Baby-_-Girl-_-19 · Oct 31, 2007, 08:21 PM

Ok. So here's my deliema: My B.F. hasn't been at school the past couple of days NO clue why he hasn't bothered to call or anything and I've been missing him like crazy... I usually see him everyday and he usually calls... even if its just a couple of mnutes to say I'm sorry I wasn't at well church for instince... so I've been kind of frustrated obviously usually when I get frustrated I fidget today since I was frustrated at him it makes sense that I was fidgeting with his ring and so I wouldn't just throw it somewhere like I've been know for doing I gave it to wes. And said I don't want it, the problem is I didn't get it back at the end of the day and I'm scared he's going to lose it because its not mine and because well right now I can't sleep without it saftley on my left ring finger I tried putting a different ring on until I hopefully get it back but nothing works... what if he loses it? How will I tell my boyfriend?I feel so bad... I feel so bad I mean I know its not an exspensive ring and I know that if I just lost it he wouldn't really care because it is so big on my finger but I GAVE it to another guy (although the guy is my cousin) to hold on to because I was mad and didn't want to throw it. Now look what I've gone and done... I know this probably doesn't seem like much to anyone else but this ring means a lot to me and I just... I hope wes. Remember's to bring it back to me tomorrow... the best thing I can say is if/when I get it back I am NEVER taking it off again... not even to shower!!

br_hjs · Oct 31, 2007, 08:28 PM

I just wanted to say I understand how it means a lot to you... My boyfriend bought me a ring and 1 day I got mad and gave it back to him... we are still together but he never gave it back. He said that he thinks a mouse moved it because he can't find it anywhere... that sounds like a lie. I really miss that ring. I still have the neckless he bought me but not the ring. The ring made me so happy. I would always feel like he's their with me even though he wasn't..
Did you ask for it back?

Baby-_-Girl-_-19 · Nov 2, 2007, 12:24 PM

I didn't give it to my boyfriend I gave it to another guy to hold onto and forgot to ask for it back before school got out... He forgot to bring it back to me yesterday and then he didn't go home last night he promises he'll find it and I know he's not doing it on purpose but I'm just not sure what to do because if he doesn't find it how am I going to tell my boyfriend that Wes. Lost it?

br_hjs · Nov 2, 2007, 01:33 PM

I know that... I was just saying my story and that I know what its like to miss a ring like that.
Tell him the truth. You'll get what you deserve

Baby-_-Girl-_-19 · Nov 8, 2007, 12:38 PM

I thought you were saying to ask my boyfriend... it turned out that Wes did lose it... but my boyfriend understands... he said that he'll probably find it... I hope so... because even though I know that he understands I still miss it... idk...

peggyhill · Nov 8, 2007, 01:43 PM

Tell him to rent a metal detector and use it to look around his house, if he can't find it. I found my grandma's ring that way. It had been lost for at least 6 months. I found it in a crack in the floorboards behind her dresser. I would never had seen it without the metal detector. Good luck!

Kevin_s · Nov 8, 2007, 03:09 PM

Hello,

If you are the type of person who fidgets, giving the ring to someone else was a big problem...

Put it in your bag, or if you're home put it in your dresser or desk.

I would NEVER give anything that is that important to me to someone else, especially if it isn't mine to begin with.

I'm not trying to bash on you, I hope this other person gives the ring back. Do you know where they live? Maybe you can offer to go help look for it?

Kevin

Baby-_-Girl-_-19 · Nov 12, 2007, 06:40 AM

I guess... I wasn't thinking... mostly because the guy I gave it to is my cousin... and at that time I didn't have a bag or pockets or anything... I talked to my boyfriend... he's not worried about it... he says that it doesn't really matter to him and he understands... so... I think I was more worried about his reaction than the ring itself... I do miss it... but... I'd rather have my boyfriend than his ring... if Wes. Finds it Great and if he doesn't then its not so bad...