[chantal123]

Hi, my husband and I, been separate for 1 year, he travels every month to the city for business and stays for 1 1/2 week or 2 weeks sometimes,so we see every month, recently we been feeling , we both do not love each other the same way we did:) ,when we were together, we are scare about if this is going to end in a divorce, on top of that, we have diferents plans for our lives, I want to go school and get a carrer, he is already thinking in retairing, he wants to live in a condominium, I want to live in a house, I would like to live out of the city, hee wants to live in the city for his bisness, we been very close to get separate, now seems like we don't know what to do and what to think anymore, I been telling him recently that our situation, it looks like, we are going against the waves... I love him, he says he loves me too, but , we are not sure about if we want to continius in this kaos, we want to be happy, but should we keeping trying to work things out?? Or should we get separate?? And let destiny do his job?? I am desperate, I don't know what to do?? My son is coming to this country soon , and I don't want any problems for him,I am a single mom, he will be like a father for my son, and I know they both will get atached... please help me I need to hear people opinions... he is 14 year older than I...

[Fr_Chuck]

Why have you not moved to where he works ?

Why has he not changed job to live closer ?