[wackymb]

Hi, I have a question. Me and my husband had sex but, the condom came off inside me. When I went to the bathroom it came out but, nothing was in it. For the whole month of Oct. I kept feeling werid things and felt like I was pregnant. My boobs seem like they got bigger and they nipples are always big(like when they get cold). My stomach feels so bloated and felt so heavy like. It didn't take me much to get tired and wiped out. I was suppose to start my period on the 20th or 21st. But, it came on the 25th. But, when it first started before the little cramps, I had discharge(which is normal and usually stops a week before my period)with lite brown color in it but, not all the time. When I did start my period it started funny. For the whole day I only had one spot of lite pink on the pad but, when I wiped, there was blood on the toilet paper. It is some what a little heavier but, I just feel like something is different with this period. I had really bad back pain which never happens to me when I'm on my period. I did take a HPT 4 days before my suppose to be missed period but, it came out negative. Do you think I should still take a test after I am off my period. This is some what similar to how I had my first child only I did really bleed. How can you tell between regular period or Implantation? Please help. I really want another child but my husband doesn't. I'm sorry to say that it will have to be a mistake if I got pregnant. He won't talk about having anymore. So, there is nothing I can do, only if God makes it happen for me. Well, thanks to anyone who will have advice for me. Later.

[savedsinner7]

Wait a couple of weeks then take another test.

[babieface85]

The test you took four days before you period could have given you a false negative. If you just had some light pink spotting you should re test, now that hormone has had time to build up in your system. I had the lightest line ever on a cheep test, the first day of my missed period, so I went out and got an early detection test. The line was not any darker. Even though the tests say they can pick it up 5 days sooner it just depends on your hormone levels.

[Niki13]

I would take another test to make sure. If it comes out negative and you are still feeling this way I would call your doctor and make an appointment.

[wackymb]

Hi, I just asked a question earlier but, I have another one. My last question was about me being pregnant or not. I did get my period but, it was a whole week late. I usually never do that. Anyway, before the blood started to come the night before me and my husband had sex(with a condom)and when he went in, it hurt for a minute and then after I went to go to the bathroom and noticed some brown color and little blood in my discharge. Then early the next morning I started my period. I am feeling all these werid things in my stomach. Could I still be pregnant and when should I take another test to make sure that I am or I'm not. Please help. I can't stop thinking that I am. Has anyone had this before and ended up pregnant?

[charlotte234s]

I don't see a huge reason for you to worry about being pregnant, your chances seem very low, but if you are concerned about the pains and your period, see a doctor. I would wait until your next period is due to take a test because that is when the pregnancy hormone will be detectable.

[bekah876]

You said it hurt at first during sex, the blood you saw after sex might have been from a tear or small rip. I know some women do bleed during their first trimester; however, if you are experiencing a heavy period like bleeding it is possibly unlikely that you are pregnant. Then again every one is different. The only way to know for sure is to take a pregnancy test. I would be patient and wait to see if you get your period next month.

[wackymb]

Yeah, well it all started with me being a week late on my period. It finally came but when it first started it was different. That day it was some what heavy, not to bad and then the second day it was getting lighter. Now it's the third day and there is nothing on my pad or when I wiped. Except for just now when I went to go to the bathroom cause I'm so constipated and had little blood on paper but, not on pad or in toilet. My upper stomach is bigger than normal and nipples still big(like when they get cold) and sometimes they are darker. What could all of this mean? Should I test? Thanks for anyone who writes back.

[macksmom]

If you were late on your period and never tested, you should take a HPT. Some woman still have periods during pregnancy, and many have light bleeding during early pregnancy.

I would test just to be sure.

[wackymb]

K, well. I keep thinking that I'm pregnant. I had some what heavy bleeding on the first day of my period and then after that it got lighter. It stopped on day three and then on the fourth day I noticed little cramping and spotting. But, there is no blood in toilet. Little pink color on toilet paper and sometimes on pad. I took a test today but, it came out negative. Are you suppose to wait until the bleeding or spotting stops all the way before taking a test? Should I wait until the end of this week. Oh, by the way, my period was a week late. No very usuall for me. I just feel preggy. I feel very top heavy, boobs seem bigger, and early this morning I felt like I was going to puke. I was warm and felt like I had a little headache whick came with some dizziness. Do you think I am putting all this in my head. Please help. I want to be preggy so bad. Anyway, later.

[macksmom]

You should go to the doctor and get a blood pregnancy test to know for sure so you can stop worrying about it. It is most likely that you were just late... you did have your period, and now you have a negative HPT as well. You can produce pregnancy symptoms if you keep psyching yourself out about it.

Go to the doctor and get a blood pregnancy test.

[wackymb]

You should go to the doctor and get a blood pregnancy test to know for sure so you can stop worrying about it. It is most likely that you were just late...you did have your period, and now you have a negative HPT as well. You can produce pregnancy symptoms if you keep psyching yourself out about it.

Go to the doctor and get a blood preg test.

Thanks. But, I don't have any insurance right now and I can't let my husband now anything. I'm just going to wait it out until next month to see if I get my period. Oh, and some women do have periods while they are pregnant. I know a couple of them. But, thanks for the input. Have a good night.

[macksmom]

Thanks. But, I don't have any insurance right now and I can't let my husband now anything. I'm just going to wait it out til next month to see if I get my period. Oh, and some women do have periods while they are pregnant. I know a couple of them. But, thanks for the input. Have a good night.

Well then all you can do is either pay for the doctor visit and blood work, or wait it out.

And I am very aware that some women have periods during pregnancy... I was the one that told you that the last time you asked this question.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ng-145607.html

[wackymb]

Well then all you can do is either pay for the doctor visit and blood work, or wait it out.

And I am very aware that some women have periods during pregnancy....I was the one that told you that the last time you asked this question.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ng-145607.html

K, sorry if I sounded rude but, I wasn't trying to be. My 4 year old won't leave me alone and I am trying to do several things at once. Do you have any idea how much it would cost if I went and got that done? Thanks. I'll stop bugging you now.

[macksmom]

Do you have any idea how much it would cost if I went and got that done?

It cost varies doctor to doctor, lab to lab. You can call your office and ask how much it will cost, they will be able to tell you.

[wackymb]

Hi everyone. For about two years or so me and my husband haven't really been getting along. It's little things that tips us off. But, I feel like I'm the only one that works on stuff to try to make it work. He says that he will work on them but, just last night when we had a big fight, I asked him why he hasn't worked on anything and he said cause he doesn't know what to work on. We fight cause he never listens to me. I've told him several times what was bothering me about him or what he never does. Last night we fought about sex and another baby. He tells me that he just doesn't want sex right now that he has no desire for it. What am I suppose to do? That is really the only way I think he did show me how much he loved me. And the baby thing. A while ago, I did want another baby. But, I'm over that now. But, he seems to think I do. IF it happens, then great. But, if not, I will learn to live with that. At least I have one child. Anyway, he gets really mad when I bring up the same stuff so, last night he told me that he wanted a divorce and that he didn't love me. Last week, he did tell me that he loved me. He admitted in the past that he says stuff like that cause I make him so mad. But, I just don't know anymore. I know that I can be a big sometimes but, what women isn't? I've been trying to control myself cause I can admitt that I do get mad over stupid little things. But, it just hurts me so bad that I am the only one that feels like things are my fault. Anyway, after the fight yesterday, this morning I told him that I was sorry and asked if we could please work on this cause I do love him. He said yeah. So, do you think that he does still love me and just said that he wanted a divorce cause of the fighting and that we want different things? I went a whole year or so without sex with him before cause he said that he never wanted it. But, I know that he is lying when he says that. It just hurts when your own husband turns you down. Please give me some advice, I don't want to split our family up. Sorry for it being so long. I have more to talk about but, will do it later. Thanks so much:(

[statictable]

Sure he loves you. I just think someone's driving him crazy. Maybe someone at work? A neighbor? Who knows? One thing we all know and that is how difficult intimacy can be when our environment is less than safe and secure or our partner in intimacy is angry, hostile, bitter, frustrated, sad, confused, demanding, distant or hundreds of other descriptive states of mind. If your going to "work" on things it might be best to have a intermediary, referee or other such professional to add guidance while you both journey forward in search of where you were. Best wishes.

[wackymb]

Sure he loves you. I just think someone's driving him crazy. Maybe someone at work? A neighbor? Who knows? One thing we all know and that is how difficult intimacy can be when our environment is less than safe and secure or our partner in intimacy is angry, hostile, bitter, frustrated, sad, confused, demanding, distant or hundreds of other descriptive states of mind. If your going to "work" on things it might be best to have a intermediary, referee or other such professional to add guidance while you both journey forward in search of where you were. Best wishes.

Thanks so much. I know that I have been driving him crazy lately but, I'm trying to work on that. I know that we are young and got married early cause we were having a baby. I guess I'm trying to change him some and that's not fair to him. I just wish it could be the way when we first met. I just don't know how we will get threw our differences. And I tried to get him to go see someone but, he says that crap is gay. He's kind of a stubburn guy. His mom tells me that he is just like his dad when his dad was his age. And what gets me, my husband says that he has no emotions and that nothing hurts him or bothers him. That's crap, everyone has emotions and things that hurt them. He just doesn't like to show them. Well, it's late. Thanks for you opinion. I'm glad that you think he loves me, I was hoping I wouldn't get mad answers. Have a good day.

[wackymb]

Hi, it's me again. With all the other problems that we are having. Another thing that bothers me is that he always spends time with his friends and not with me and his son. See he has 4 days off a week. And most of the time if he's not with his friends hunting or whatever, he sleeps all day. Leaving me to do everything. And when I ask him if he want's to go somewhere, he says no. He never goes with me to take his kid to the park. It's like he'd rather be with his friends than his family. But, he says that's not true. Well, then why doesn't he want to go do anything with us? He also has this brother that is constently moving in here and then moving back with his parents and then coming back here. It's driving me crazy. I don't get along with his brother. He butts into our business, borrows money,etc... You know one of those people that don't want to work and make a living. I can't tell you how many times his brother took something and didn't bring it back or broke something or even sold something of my husbands. I don't know. Guess it's normal not to get along with all your in-laws, right? Believe me when I tell you that I have a lot to talk about concerning my husband,etc... I'll save more for later. My hand is starting to hurt. Thanks so much. Later.

Can anyone tell me how you really know if you love someone or if they really love you?