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    statesgirl Posts: 77, Reputation: 0
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    Oct 25, 2007, 01:49 PM
    Guys and Porn
    Hello,

    Me and my boyfriend have a very good sex life and I was wondering what is the obsession he has with wanting to watch porn during sex. I don't mind now and then. But he tends to want to A lot. Does he pretend he's with the girl in video? Or is it just to spice up the sex life. I asked him before and he said he feels like he's having sex with both of us. And that the girl on the video says sexy things during sex that I would never say!! :mad: Should I be worried or just accpet it as a sexual fantasy thing?
    Thank you .
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    Oct 25, 2007, 02:13 PM
    I have an idea for you. Go get yourself a porno that you would like and see if he still likes it. Maybe something softer. I have to say good for you for giving it a try for his sake but you have to be getting just as much out of it as him otherwise you may feel like just being with you is not enough for him and what is that supposed to do with your confidence. There are so many other ways of spicing things up, if this isn't it for you than change it.
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    RustyFairmount Posts: 165, Reputation: 40
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    Oct 25, 2007, 03:33 PM
    The girls in the videos may be willing to do things that you are not. The videos allow him to have his fantasy without making you do things that you are uncomfortable with.

    There's no need to worry until he prefers masturbating over having sex with you. Until then, it's just good fun.

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