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    mariac0916 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 24, 2007, 09:24 AM
    Early relationship, lowered my standards? Need input
    I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 months now. He moved in within the first month of us dating, because he had no where to go. Things are OK with us, but he has a lot of (and I hate this term) baby mama drama. This girl has caused so many problems. My dilema lies that my boyfriend lied real early on in the relationship about several things. He does not seem to have the same ambition as I do, and he is honestly a complete slob.

    My family and friends say I need to move on he is not on "my level" and he is only bringing me down. I love him, but not in the same way he loves me, he says he is In love with me, and I can not say the same. I told him this and he said it is OK he can live with that as long as I still love him?

    We have been fighting a lot and I told him I lowered my standards to be with him. I know it was hurtful, and I regret I said it, but honestly it is the truth.

    What do I do?
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    Duane in Japan Posts: 282, Reputation: 8
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    Oct 24, 2007, 09:53 AM
    Be positive not negative, you want to move on with your life and you want to be with someone who has the same goals as you, it's that simple.
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