[Aplayer32]

I don't have a girlfriend yet but my best friend is dating my other best friend and I kind of like her and my other best friend doesn't have a boyfriend and I told her I like her but she said Our friendship is to inportant and I think it would be kind of akward dating you your like a bro to me. I don't know what to do.

[peggyhill]

It sounds like your friend likes you as a bro and nothing else. She probably doesn't want to risk your friendship. Keep her as a friend, even if it is a little awkward after having that conversation. Who knows? Maybe down the road, she will want to be with you! As for your friend who is dating someone, she is off limits. If she becomes single, then you can ask her on a date. And, just like the other girl, if she says no, you will have to try to stay friends with her. Is there any one else you like? Do you think maybe you are attracted to these girls because you are already friends with them and therefore feel comfortable around them? You could try getting involved in other activities where you will meet new people. I would look for other people who interest you, these girls seem to be off limits for right now. I hope that helps. Remember, you have your whole life to find someone, so don't stress and have fun. Meet lots of people and keep your options open!

[N0help4u]

It is much better to have a friend for a long time and hope you have a chance with her someday if and when the time is right than to rush into a bf/gf relationship and ending up possibly hating each other. Keep your options open and don't burn bridges.