[kentuckybabe3891]

ahhh me and this guy I like hung out over the weekend and I mean I really like him and he says he likes me bak but for now were just friends and we tell each other everything and he really likes my best friend and she likes him ((everyone likes her and she doesn't think so)) she is the kind of friend that won't go out wit him because she doesn't do that to her friends but she said it was fine for me to go out wit him because I met him way before they met and he wants my permission to go out wit her and I was like I don't know I will think about it and now he is mad at me and I don't know what to do she said that since she can't say no she would say yes even though she's not that kind of friend that's just the way things are... she is talking to him for me and she is trying to hook us up... but he wants me to hook him and her up and so I don't know what to sayor do to him... so if any one has really good advice or can help in anyway please help!!

[fredg]

Hi,
This is the old triangle, where you want the boy, and he wants your best girlfriend.
Believe me, it will work out one way or the other. Either you or your girlfriend have to decide to stop talking with this boy. If you want him interested in you, then your girlfriend has to stay out of it completely... not even seeing him, talking with him, etc.
If not, then the boy will pick her; if he already likes her more.
The only other option is for BOTH you and your girlfriend to stop communicating with him, and you look for someone else.
It's a tough decision, but it really is up to you two.
I do wish you the best.

[xxBeccaxx]

I think you should have a talk with your friend and sort things out between you both. I can imagine how you feel, it has happened to everyone at some point in their life. It has happened to me with one of my friends. Everyone seemed to fancy her, and I felt like her side kick! Just remember you will move on on day soon and you will wonder what on earth you saw in him.
I hope all gets better in the near future.
Becca x