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ciadellys · Oct 20, 2007, 01:12 PM

Well as you guys know I was having brownish discharge for a week and in September I did not get my period the last time I got my period was August.25.2007 I took a pregnancy test it came out negative but I also got a blood test done in the hospital and it was also negative the doctors said that it just seem like I just had a very light period but he said there's no thing wrong with me my question is that I'm kind of worried because me and my boyfriend we been trying to get pregnant but it hasn't happened we been trying since April could there be something wrong with me he ejaculates inside of me almost all the time we tried I still don't get pregnant he's healthy and I'm too what can this be I want to have kids and I know I'm young I'm only 18 years old but I also think this might effect my future if I ever try to have kids then and I won't get pregnant I been really depress because of this can someone please give me an advice but also my period is very irregular?

Wondergirl · Oct 20, 2007, 01:18 PM

I can't imagine why anyone would want to get pregnant outside the legal stability of a marriage, especially at such a young age, and without a plan in mind for the future--but then, that's just me, I guess, being rational.

I suspect you are trying too hard and thinking too much about this and obsessing over getting pregnant. Relax and get your mind off this. Take some college classes or develop a hobby like photography or writing your life story.

ciadellys · Oct 20, 2007, 01:32 PM

I Just Been So Relaxed What Else Should I Do?

Wondergirl · Oct 20, 2007, 01:48 PM

Then move your body. Ride a bike, play badminton, go for a hike in the woods, walk around the block twice a day... be active and find enjoyment in simple things. When you walk or hike, look around you at the bushes and flowers and trees and birds but don't be glued to a cell phone (don't even take it with you). When you bike, go on nature trails or in an unfamiliar neighborhood and look at the things around you.

Like Mr. Wizard on 1950s TV used to say (to be healthy), "Get lots of water, fresh air, and rest."

ciadellys · Oct 20, 2007, 02:00 PM

But what can I do what about if I can't get pregnant at all in my future?

ciadellys · Oct 20, 2007, 02:01 PM

I'm kind of scared seriously I want to be able to have kids in the future!

Wondergirl · Oct 20, 2007, 02:26 PM

Did your mother and aunts have any problem with getting pregnant?

Don't forget. It might not be you. It could be your boyfriend. If he wears tight underwear, likes to take hot baths or showers, is in hot tubs a lot, or has a family history of sexual and fertility problems, the problem could be him. Ask him to see his doctor and get a fertility check. That's the first place to start anyway.

ciadellys · Oct 26, 2007, 03:48 PM

On Tuesday I was chewing gum in school for like a couple hours then I had lunch I don't if I swallow the gum or not can't remember all I remember that right after I had lunch I felt like something was stuck in the bottom of my throat so then I went to the nurse office and they told me if it was something big I would've been choking and it was something small I would've swallowed it and she says gum can't get stuck in your throat so then the next day I have really bad sore throat that I can't even swallow my own saliva and still feel the same like there something stuck in my throat same since Tuesday and that same day I had a little fever but now I have no fever what can it be I get a lot of heartburn and I burp a lot could I be pregnant because my period was light this month but I took a pregnancy test came out negative or could I just have something else?