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lillypad1 · Oct 19, 2007, 03:10 PM

Is he following me or something else
My friend had brought his friend to our martial arts class.that guy after class sort of kept following me (I think).I had gone out side it was kind of dark (I was looking for what I had ropped earlier)and I had turned around and he's just standing there (my friend was not ),I had said "what?"then he was all __ said you would say that,stood next to me for a while,then he left.shortly before, I had said something to my friend,he got mad,really mad so his friend grabbed my waist and was all"i got her".do you find that strange.I don't hardly even know the guy.

Homegirl 50 · Oct 19, 2007, 03:36 PM

Sounds pretty strange to me. Was your friend mad at you or that guy? I'm not getting what you're talking about.

shygrneyzs · Oct 19, 2007, 03:45 PM

It is very strange. You left out some vital points here. If the guy followed you outside, then yes, he was following you. Did it creep you out? Sounds like it. I get that part.

But what happened prior to this? It is hard to understand what happened. What did you say to your friend? Why did your friend get mad? Was he mad at you? Or his other friend? What did he say to his friend? Why did his friend grab you?

Last question - why were you outside by yourself after class? IN the dark?

MOWERMAN2468 · Oct 19, 2007, 04:17 PM

First of all, if the jerk grabbed you that could be considered aggravated assault and he could be charged by law enforcement.

peggyhill · Oct 19, 2007, 04:35 PM

You should tell your parents or another adult. It is always better to be safe than sorry. You mentioned that you were at a martial arts class. You should tell your martial arts teacher what happened also. If this guy is trying to harass you, he shouldn't be allowed to come to the classes. Ask your friend about it too. No one ever has a right to touch you without your permission, even if they claim to be just "playing around". Absolutely tell someone. If it turns out to be nothing, then that's good. But, you should be safe. Never go outside by yourself at night. Where I live, law enforcement suggests carrying whistles with you, so if someone bothers you, you can blow the whistle and get attention if you need help. You should always have a cell phone or something with you if you absolutely have to be out alone at night. You should ask your martial arts teacher to walk you to your parents car when you leave. If you walk to classes, ask someone you trust to walk with you, or make arrangements to get a ride. Hope this helps!

lillypad1 · Oct 19, 2007, 04:53 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Sounds pretty strange to me. Was your friend mad at you or that guy? I'm not getting what you're talking about.

I had said something that had made my friend mad,his nose had turned red from a punch and I said he looked like rudolf

lillypad1 · Oct 19, 2007, 04:57 PM

Originally Posted by shygrneyzs

It is very strange. You left out some vital points here. If the guy followed you outside, then yes, he was following you. Did it creep you out? Sounds like it. I get that part.

But what happened prior to this? It is hard to understand what happened. What did you say to your friend? Why did your friend get mad? Was he mad at you? Or his other friend? What did he say to his friend? Why did his friend grab you?

Last question - why were you outside by yourself after class? IN the dark?

My mothers class was going on so most of the parents were in it,it was only 7:00 .I had said my friend looked like rudolf(his noe got red from a punch)I kind of knew the guy as a friend of a friend.Thay are like best buds or something.After he grabed me I broke free and went to another room

lillypad1 · Oct 19, 2007, 05:01 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Sounds pretty strange to me. Was your friend mad at you or that guy? I'm not getting what you're talking about.

I had been buggin my friend all day and kind of emberrased him in fron of his friend