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CornDog · Oct 16, 2007, 08:01 PM

:confused: The last 3 months I have been through a lot but the no contact thing worked I gave her the time she needed and now she is opening up!
I really need some advice on how to handle it...

Should I tell her everything I feel?
Should I tell her that I do still love her and have feelings for her, and I still want to spend my life with her as much as I did when I asked her to marry me 12 months ago,
That I understand there's lots to work out and time can only tell, Should I share these feelings with her??
Or Should I do something more like this
Play it cool, Not show emotion, but make sure she knows I do have feelings for her?

What to do Im confused
She gives mix'ed msg's But does admit feelins for me and words everything very carfully
She will say something like: We need to work this out EVEN if its only for our daughter.
Then admits feelings in the same combo,
Nothing she sez gives out a "NO WE WILL NEVER BE TOGEATHER" SIGNAL,

Anyway Im really confused right now and I feel she is just as confused as me, What's the best way to handle all this? Any ideas? Im not giving up my hopes, I know it may never work out.. But I do want to give it my best since she seems to be trying now.

enigmagnetic · Oct 16, 2007, 08:19 PM

Originally Posted by CornDog

:confused: The last 3 months I have been through alot but the no contact thing worked I gave her the time she needed and now she is opening up!
I really need some advice on how to handle it...

Should I tell her everything I feel?
Should I tell her that I do still love her and have feelings for her, and I still want to spend my life with her as much as I did when I asked her to marry me 12 months ago,
That I understand theres lots to work out and time can only tell, Should I share these feelings with her???
Or Should I do something more like this
Play it cool, Not show emotion, but make sure she knows I do have feelings for her?

What to do Im confused
She gives mix'ed msg's But does admit feelins for me and words everything very carfully
She will say something like: We need to work this out EVEN if its only for our daughter.
Then admits feelings in the same combo,
Nothing she sez gives out a "NO WE WILL NEVER BE TOGEATHER" SIGNAL,

Anyway Im really confused right now and I feel she is just as confused as me, Whats the best way to handle all this? Any ideas? Im not giving up my hopes, I know it may never work out.. But I do want to give it my best since she seems to be trying now.

If you love her dude I think in your scenario you need to take the initiative. Tell her LISTEN YOU ARE MY WOMAN AND I WANT YOU, TO CHERISH, AND TO RAISE OUR DAUGHTER. YOU ARE SCINTILLATING AND I WANT YOU. F*** THIS DANCE WE ARE DOING BECAUSE WHILE FUN, WE'RE NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER SISTER AND I'VE GOT A LONGING FOR YOU MY DEAR ANGEL type thing. She is saying you NEED to work it out so it's like she is saying you have no choice. Just do her. I mean do it. Like kick her door in with a rose clenched in your teeth and pick her up over your back and walk out with her. Maybe just tell her. Well think about it and good luck.