
Originally Posted by
abundant_world
Yeah hi again, about giving your women an orgasm
Thanks for your input that's some great advice there, I've also been getting some fantastic feedback on my blog (almost enough to write a book on this subject Lol)
I thought I would add this point for those of you who are starting your endeavour to sexual bliss from scratch.
Don't be disheartened if your partner doesn't orgasm in the beginning when attempting moves that are aimed at giving her orgasm during intercourse!
Most women don`t orgasm from intercourse alone. What the two of you need to focus on is having her orgasm via manual and oral stimulation first, and then you can move on to more advanced techniques and try to orgasm during intercourse. If she`s really uncomfortable masturbating in front of you in the beginning, why not try a little phone sex? You won`t be with her in person, but your voice will, and I`m sure you can think of some loving and sexy things to help her along.
Will be back to add some more moves later but for now here's few more tips in basic oral
The clitoris (or ) is what gives women the most pleasure and the most pain during sex... that's why the most important thing to remember when dealing the is balance. Too much stimulation will make her so sensitive that she will become uncomfortable, while too little stimulation will never make her orgasm. Rubbing too hard on the will hurt her (remember it's probably the most sensitive/fragile part of her body... think about someone rubbing really hard on your sack, not fun huh?), but rubbing too soft will not stimulate her enough. So remember, balance is the key ingredient.
Rubbing on her in a circular motion before sex is highly advised, because if you do not do it then making her orgasm during sex will be much harder (some girls prefer clockwise, some prefer counter-clockwise... try both and whichever gets the best reaction out of her is what you should continue with). Do that for about 10 minutes while kissing her lips, neck and breasts (get used to multi-tasking... it's a needed trait if you want to be great the best lover she's ever had... great preliminary to sex and will give heightened pleasure during intercourse
For those ladies who are reading this thread! Here's some basic oral for the guys pleasure after all it's about satisfying both parties
These are very basic ideas will add some more advanced ideas later
T-Bagging, It’s Not Just for Brits:
Teasing his testicles: Don’t be afraid of the wrinklies. The wrinklies like the oral loving too. As much as I can’t imagine what it feels like to get a blow job, I truly cannot fathom what it feels like to have one’s testes sucked, but I hear it’s really rather lovely. You can suck one ball at a time, or you can suck both together, and if you’ve got a long tongue, you can then stick it out and lick around what is commonly known as the “taint,” and is officially known as the “perineum.” I know I like mine licked, so I assume my man does too. His favourite is when I take the entire testicle in my mouth and gently suck and move my tougue around, drives him nuts.
It can be quite novel to start the blowjob from the testes and work up; especially if you’ve been with your lover a while, this change is a simple way to shake things up a tiny bit. You can also, once you’re made the porn-starry spit and started your hand going, drop your head between your man’s parted thighs and take his testes in your mouth, running your tongue around interestingly and sucking gently, while you let your hand do what it does.
Deep Throat: I don’t know why it took me so long to realize this, but at some point in my twenties, I discovered it was entirely appropriate to use both my hand and my mouth together whilst sucking my man’s cock. Because I can deep-throat, and because I’ve always been able to deep-throat, it never occurred to me that using my hand wasn’t cheating. When I finally let the thought dawn in my sometimes dim conscience, I realized that it wasn’t cheating; it was just a good time.
Placing the cock as far back in your throat as it can just uncomfortably go will help you gag, and gagging will produce that lovely, highly viscous porn-starry spit that makes an incredible lube. I like to make that spit and then utilize it for the oral-topped hand job. And once I’ve made the spit, I find that it’s very easy to move my hand from my delicate hold around the base of my man’s cock to stroking up and down his shaft in time with my head.
Sometimes I use my mouth and hand in concert, smooshing my hand down my man’s cock with my mouth chasing after. Other times, I’ll use a very open grip with a quick, light stroke just in the center of his cock while I tongue and suck the head of his cock. Still other times, I’ll meet my hand and mouth in the center of his cock and pull out with my hand toward the base and toward the tip with my mouth. Sometimes too, I’ll use one hand to grip the base of his cock, sometimes wrapping a finger down and under his balls, while I use the other hand on the center of his shaft and busy my mouth on the tip. It’s all good, coordinated, opposable-thumbed fun.
Please feel free to add some ideas here
To be continued... ;)