You shall have whatever you agree with
The weak in heart and mind simply accept whatever has been spoken over them, whatever has been spoken concerning them, by merely accepting such, agreeing with such, it shall manifest. However, you are not weak minded, yet troubled in heart. You now see what has been said and it bothers you because you do not want this as your portion. In heart, you see a more vibrant and prosperous life which you yearn to experience; however, much has come to discourage you, to send you grasping unto vain attempts.
Be still, find a place of solitude and hear your inner voice, it is there. Believe in that voice and shun and refuse to accept, to believe in anything/anyone that does not confirm what your inner voice has revealed unto you.
Your resolve must be "I am better than that" in order to align your mind and heart. Many have low expectations of you, merely because your success will cause them much same and agony. You are sensitive to their position; however, your plight must not reflect the insecurities of other, but yet allow their negativity to be your encouragment to advance unto a more excellent way of life.
If the fear of others, by their words, is enough to sway you. Ask yourself why. The focus is not why have they spoken such concerning you, rather why have you allowed such to potentially hinder you. People will speak all manner of things against you, as well as for you, in either case, what is most relevant is the words you hear from you. Believe in you, even if the world turns against you. In due time, when darkness is dispelled by light, those who have spoken against you will be enlighten. However, know that much of the work now done will be done in darkness, no one will be able to know exactly what is taking place, you will; however, and move in that confidence. Not all need to know, in fact, if you keep a positive perspective moving steadfastly in this season of your life, many will marvel. They knew not what you are made of, you shall see. As the saying goes, "If you want to know what is inside of a woman, pour hot water on her". This saying results from a known Truth of the woman scorned.
You need not to be overwhelmed by external influence, however, allow your core... your inner voice to balance your steady gait. Know the source of doubt, is it mere fear that needs to be confronted, has it been suggested by external influences... if it is the latter, know with assurance who stands to gain by your indecisiveness. In other words, know that others may fear your progress because it will tip the scales unto how they must relate and interact with you. Sometimes it is easier for some to relate to you in what they consider a weaken position, this is so because they are intimidated by you, now think, if you arise to the challenge... you win... and that scares most. That is their problem, make it not yours.
What Dreams may come... is determined by your personal resolve. Sacrificing for the greater good of those nearby, as not to cause them further distress, to help them feel comfortable in their own plight... you've done that and they are still miserable. Now, live... maximize life's opportunity to aid you unto a more excellent way of life and if they choose to do the selfsame for themselves, grand, if not... let their choice be their portion and taint not your heart and mind because of it.
It is your time to shine. The choice is your.
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