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laodemon22 · Oct 3, 2007, 06:29 PM

Well I have a friend that I have known since I was little. And I found out that her step-father use to sexually abuse her. And her got her pregnant 1st time. She went to her mother and told her but she didn't believe her. So she went 2 get an abortion. And her step father keep sexually abusing her and she got pregnant again. And the doctor told her if she get this abortion she won't be able to have kids again. I want to help her, but now she don't trust anybody. I don't blame her and I wish I could help her. Anyway she gave birth to her son and put him up for adoption. (o by the way her dirt bag stepfather is in jail right now.)

Marzapan741 · Oct 3, 2007, 07:08 PM

She has to call like child services. That's horrible. He has to be taken away from her.

And that can't be true. I know women who gotten more then 2 abortiosn and have kids

laodemon22 · Oct 4, 2007, 05:26 PM

Yea it might because she so young and little. And what she told me was that that abortion put her body under a lot of stress or something

Marzapan741 · Oct 4, 2007, 05:26 PM

Aww poor girl. She has to tell someone

kitten269 · Oct 4, 2007, 06:07 PM

How old is she? That's awful. He should be in jail

shygrneyzs · Oct 4, 2007, 06:11 PM

Good thing her step father is in jail. So did her mother finally believe her? Her mother ought to be in jail too, for endangering her daughter and allowing the sexual abuse.
I can understand that your friend is not too trusting now. The best thing to do is just to let her know you are there if she wants to talk. That you will be there when she needs you. Pray for her, for her and her child that she placed into adoption. That was a very tough decision for her to make.

laodemon22 · Oct 6, 2007, 08:23 PM

Yea that the thing... I ask her about her step dad and mom and her stepdad is in jail. While her mom somewhere else. I don't know whole story other then my friend move to her Grandparents house. And that she going put that child up for adoption.

lrhall41 · Oct 7, 2007, 04:22 PM

That is so sad and disgusting, but it is a good thing that she's got you. Please make her tell the authorities in school, police, etc. anyone that can help!!
She has already been through a traumatic event once and I think that she needs support and medical help.
The government has a lot of programs that can help and all that she had to do is call the local health department, child protective services, or even a domestic abuse help group, and they will help her. Even call a local church!!
Poor thing.. she needs a lot of help and support.

notabadgirl · Oct 9, 2007, 02:11 PM

Originally Posted by laodemon22

Well i have a friend that i have known since i was little. And I found out that her step-father use to sexually abuse her. And her got her pregnant 1st time. She went to her mother and told her but she didn't believe her. So she went 2 get an abortion. And her step father keep sexually abusing her and she got pregnant again. And the doctor told her if she get this abortion she wont be able to have kids again. I wanna help her, but now she don't trust anybody. I don't blame her and i wish i could help her. Anyway she gave birth to her son and put him up for adoption. (o btw her dirt bag stepfather is in jail right now.)

Maybe a counselor will help her?