[imhere]

I think its finally surfacing I'm so depreesed all the time I think I know why I think I fancy my best friend I adore her I would die for her but latley were always having little arguments and she's kind of distancing herself from me, all my friends keep saying I fancy her taking the wet like but I fink I might I'm so jealous of her when I see her with her boyfriend I know its sounds bad but I want him to cheat on her or summat so she would dumb him and need me to comfort her I know how wrong that is but I wish it everyday I just LOVE this girl I can't describe how much what do I do please please help I've got nowhere to turn anymore:(:((btw I am a girl)

[Nice1]

Sweety take it easy. You have your whole life ahead of you. You are worth it, and there are plenty of fishes in the sea. If you don't want to lose your friend, try to take it easy. Don't be so obsesive, that's not healthy. Take it easy, breathe. Don't invade her space, be a friend. I'm sure you guys are friends because you have so many things in common. Remember is she chose you as a friend is because she appreciates you. Now she has a boyfriend and when someone is in a relationship sometimes relationships changes many friendships. It shouldn't be like that, but that's the way life is. The only thing you can do is try to maintain your friendship with her. Be there for her in her good times and bad times. Stop acting jealous around her because is going to drive her away. Relationships come and go, you don't know if her relationship will last forever. Friendships can last a lifetime, but it all depends how we care for it. Quit thinking negative about her relationship. Remember if you really do care for her, you want to see her happy. Be there for her, but don't stalk her. Don't make her feel corner, and stop showing that you are jealous it will just drive her away. Be her henckerchief, her shoulder to lean on and her confident. Be strong, everything will be find. Keep in mind that if it is not meant for you guys to be together, you have to be strong. Happiness is around the corner, there is something out there for all of us. You know there is a saying that says, from better neighborhoods I been evicted and with better neighbors. We must move on when things are not meant to be. Of course, if that's the case I'm just saying to be strong for whatever the future may hold. Don't lose yourself because then you will really have nothing. Leave your doors open to other experiences, your world can not revolve around her only. If you do this you bound to get your heartbroken. Hang around as her friend that you are and give her, her space. Let her know that if she needs you, you are there for her. Best of luck!

[imhere]

Wooh! Thanks that really helped me I do obsses so much it controls my life I don't want her to be happy but I have very strong feeling I can't help I'm going to take your advice and see how it goes for me thanks so muchxx

[Xrayman]

Good advice-you seem a little absessed about her, perhaps you need to give her a little more space-she sounds as if she is feeling a little "hunted" by you, this is why she is distancing herself from you.

Perhaps keeping your desires/fantasies in your mind (or during other "intimate" times with yourself-may be a possible solution)..

Cheers

[imhere]

I'm my previous coment I meant I DO what her to be happyxx