[Eternal_K]

Hi. I really need help here. You see, me and my ex have been together for 1year and 2 month. We loved each other very much, he was everything for me. We were braking up twise. Once he broke up with me, but in two weeks came back. I still loved him very much but there were problems a lot, and he left me again because of some things I and he did (no cheating, nothing like that). And now, in two and a half month he came back. All this time without him I couldn't get him over, suffered so much. Then school and work started, and I got my mind of that pain stuff. I loved him still, and I still do, but as we met up I can't feel it, I don't feel as I did, I feel distant and strange (over time I used to be without him, that now I feel weird with him being in my life again and he said that I can have all time I need). I want to feel the love, my feeling for him again, but how? I want us to be together (I told him I need time to regain what have been lost) and feel my love for him again, I want it so much, that sometimes it hurts not to... How to make feeling come back? How to feel my love, how to get it back.. Please, help me, how to feel again, what to do to help it?:( :( :(
Thank you

[chuff]

Sounds like the break ups have put an issue of trust, or the lack of it between you. Perhaps you both should take a couple months apart then agree to try again after some of the pain has died down, where you might be able to start fresh again in the future.

[Eternal_K]

Chuff, we're not in the relationship now (after break up we had almoste 3 months apart), now he came back and it's all I wanted, but as it happened I stopped feeling, I can't feel anymore and it hurts. Can't be without him, can't be with him :'(

[chuff]

Yeah he came back but the trust was gone. Once the trust is gone it's hard to hold onto the love. That's why I said take 2 months away from one another, refresh, and try again at that time. Holding on now will do you no favors.