[mix786]

This is a true story that I about to tell you my friends. This is
What mainly what an ordinary Pakistani guys does to a girl. Pakistanis
Just use each other, they are good for nothing. They can't even handle
A relationship how can they handle their own life. Never trust a guy,
Not only Pakistani; any guy from any ethnicity. Don't believe them,
Don't trust them without having any proof. Don't back them up on what
Ever they are saying. Don't think that what ever they are saying is
True and is only for you , for your love. Which mainly its not its
Only sometimes for their good and nothing else.
Don't have blind love and faith, that what ever they do in life and
What ever they are in life that you don't care about and that you're
Willing to risk your life and respect over a guy just cause you love
Him. But you're really not sure that what he is saying is true or not,
When he says to you that he loves you very much. Think twice before
You give them any chance to be with you. Think very wisely and
Carefully before you let him into your life. Don't ever believe that
What ever he says is true, mostly it is a lie, a fraud and he is just
Playing with you. Don't become to serious with him who isn't even
Serious about his own life.
Generally guys are user, betrayers They play with the girls emotions;
Say they love her and than when things are looking bad for them they
Betray her and leave her with nothing with no respect , with no
Emotion no feeling . He kills the girl right than when he leaves her
And turns his back on her. I love you, three simple and three
Beautiful words which sometimes can be used in a very wrong way.
People can be so cruel, not only guys girls are like this also. Bring
In love is an amazing thing in a girls life. She loves that guy so
Much , more than she can love her self or any one else. She wants to
Leave everything for him, wants to leave all the traditions and rules
And obligations only just to be with him. And when she finds out that
He has stabbed her in the back by leaving her and killing her inside
By blaming all the horrible things that are happening to him on her.
She than realizes that his love was fake. But than she can't go any
Where she is stuck she is ruined ; if not outside than most defiantly
Inside. But only sometimes some girls are very lucky. They see very
Early that what kind of guy he really is in and out side. And now let
Me start by telling you a very true , real and touching story about a
Pakistani girl, who lost her true love in one moment.
Hey do you feel it sometimes that no matter how the person is like
And what he does, you just can't stop loving him. Well that's what
This girls story was like. This anonymous person didn't want to share
All the facts of this event so I didn't go into detail. Her feelings
For him were very deep and she has been hurt very badly. That hurt
Will never leave her side. An Advice she gives to you all , which I
Will quote, that is " Know that guy very well, make your family know
him very well know his family very well and background also before you
make any decision. that decision can change your whole life." " Do not
be naive when it comes to guys and love. Be strong, be very smart and
think very clearly don''t let him think for you no matter what." So
Shall we begin with her heart filled story! By The Way I have changed
Their both , the guys and the girls names . Yes both are Pakistani so
I should have put Pakistani names but hey English are also okay right.
"A day will come when my dreams, wishes, and desires will be
fulfilled. A day will come when i meet the right someone who I have
been longing, waiting for." she said to herself laying on the bed
Looking up at the celling half a wake and half asleep. Every night she
Thought like this, every night she wished for what she wanted to come
True. Looking to find someone for herself, she went online. And out of
The blue a guy sent her a message for becoming friends and getting to
Know each other. They talked through out the night, chatting , instant
Messaging one another over and over again. They both had a lot of
Things in common , like movies, songs, interests, sport and almost
Anything . Rose knew Jess, the guy who she met online, for many
Months; almost a whole year. All seemed well and fair, he was loving,
Nice, caring , funny , understanding and at the same time a bit
Romantic also. One little thing wasn't right he wasn't all truthful
With Rose. He lied to her about job, his family, his past girlfriend
And where and with who he lived. Rose tried to fit him and tried to
Make him into a better person.
She ignored his lies and still stayed with him no matter what.
She even let ago of the fact that he drank and smoked and went to
Clubs sometimes with his friends. But Rose still tried to see the good
In him, and tried to straighten him out. That was Jesse's victory that
He had her in her hands no matter what , and that she wouldn't let go
Of him. He made sweet talk with her, made her against her family;
Because her family thought and knew and than told Rose that he Jesse
Wasn't the right guy for her and that he was bad business. That he
Wasn't good for nothing. Rose loved her boyfriend a lot so when she
Heard what her family said to her about Jesse she didn't believe them .
Jesse now had more power when he knew Rose is against her family.
Things were going well , Jesse's plan was succeeding. Now Rose
Didn't know everything about Jesse. A day came when Jesse told her that
He isn't a citizen and that he will get his papers soon enough, which
He was lying and he wasn't going to get his papers. Rose took his news
As a big shock, this was the hugest lie that he ever spoken to her.
But she tried to see the positive in all the story. This is what she
Knew about Jesse now , he was a supervisor in his uncles construction
Company, plus he worked in his uncles grocery store as a cashier. He
Had a high school diploma and he was applying to get into college.
His family wasn't here, they sent him from Asia for him to become
Someone and make something of himself and try to get out of trouble.
He moved out of his uncles house and rented a apartment of his own. He
Went to clubs with his friends, he had a gang of friends who drank ,
Smoked and were just bullies. And now she had found out that he was an
Immigrant , he was illegal. She didn't think even once that he might
Be using her to become legal she only thought and knew that he loved
Her and she loved him and that was it.

[mix786]

Jesse's plan was to get her out of her house, for her to run
away with him and for them to get married as fast as they can so that
he can become a citizen which he didn't tell her. He loved her yes, but
his only desire and wish was to become a citizen not her husband. He
knew her family wouldn't let her marry him no matter what he did or
said. So he told Rose to run away without anyone knowing so we can get
married and tell your family after few months. His family was all for
it, was OK with the plan. Why wouldn't they be, they were happy that
their son had found someone and that he was getting married and that
he was going to become a citizen in such a easy way. It was very easy
for him, he made Rose fall in love with him so deeply in love with him
that it was hard for her to let go, so she couldn't leave him or is so
called love for her.
Rose ran away from her home and came to his place without her
family knowing. Both Rose and Jesse and few of Jesse's friends and
family went to court and had the court marriage done. After that Jesse
told Rose to have the religious ceremony as soon as possible. He
wanted things to go right and fast and smoothy. By having the
religious ritual he could have her physical meaning he could have
sexual intercourse with her. Now they both had everything done; the
legal marriage, religious ceremony ritual and now for the final part
having a physical relation. Now the best part was that even if they
did have a sexual moment with one another, they didn't have a sexual
intercourse. That's what Jesse wanted, for them to have an intercourse
so that even if she left him, she would sill be a disgrace to her
family; when everyone would know she had slept with someone and had
sexual intercourse with him. She would be looked down at through out
her area. Jesse was absolutely annoyed that he didn't get to have an
intercourse with her. But he wasn't all mad he knew that she wouldn't
leave him no matter what.
Of course her family was worried about Rose, they knew that
she had nothing to do with what has happened. They wanted her to come
back as soon as possible because they knew that Jesse will ruin her
life. Rose's family did plenty of investigations on Jesse and his
where about and the people he knew, they found out everything that he
done in the past and present; now they had the whole story of him from
top to bottom. He was in jail two to three times, he did drugs and
probably even sell them, he was worthless man who couldn't make
anything of himself since he came in this country. Even his uncle said
that "Jesse wasn't and isn't the right guy for your daughter , he is
a fraud and he is useless".
Rose's family was calling them to come back home and
everything will be all right. Jesse wasn't okay with that, he was scared
and just losing his mind when he saw his plan was about to fail. Rose
forced Jesse for him to take her back to her home. Jess was still
scared and wanted Rose to promise his that she wouldn't leave him
alone at any cost, and she did promise. They both came back to her
parents house, the family talked things over with Rose and Jesse.
Called over the priest and asked was this married right or was it
wrong. Priest said " No, the religious ceremony was done all wrong.
What they have done after the ceremony that night was also all wrong
and it was completely a sin." Rose broke out into tears, she is a bit
religious and never had done a sin ever in her whole entire life. When
Rose heard what Jesse said after that to her parents in front of her
own face it made her more upset and regret the decision she had made
into running away with him. Jesse told everyone" It wasn't my fault,
blame her your daughter it was all her idea and plan into running away
and getting married" Rose had a fit and of did her family. They knew
Rose had nothing to do with this and that it was all Jesse's doing.
Rose was shocked and amazed at what Jesse said to everyone, to her; he
blamed everything on her when he knew that it wasn't her fault at all
it was his. She went up to Jesse slapped him and threw him out of her
house and out of her life.
Rose filled for divorce, Jess was shocked at what she did. He
tried again to get her back by sweet talking to her, by saying sorry
to her. Nothing would save him now, Rose said to him " A person can
make a mistake once, can make a mistake twice but a person isn't that
stupid enough to make the same mistake over again for the third time.
I made a mistake once in meeting you and making to a boyfriend. Made a
mistake of not listening to my family and believing you and than
running away with you. Still thinking that you were right for me and
that you wouldn't hurt me like you just did. Now i am not going to
make another mistake like that and taking you back again. That would
be stupid and dumb of me to do that. You ruined my life, ruined my
respect in everyone's eyes and you blamed everything on me which you
know that isn't true. I never would want to hear from you or look at
you ever again."
Jesse was totally upset now, he was losing his citizenship. He
was so upset that he wanted to tell everyone what Rose did to insult
her in front of everyone in her area. He told everybody that what kind
of girl is Rose who ran away from her family and went off with a guy
slept with him had a complete relation and than had a divorce. He
wanted everyone to look down at her. Now of course everyone knew how
bad of a guy he is, and didn't believe him, his reputation was gone.
Everyone knew that Rose wasn't that kind of girl, that she only got
tricked by Jesse's ways. Now Of course he will get deported after the
divorce, Rose is free from him and now she has made an oath to herself
and to God that she will never believe anyone again without getting
all the facts in order. She will never let anyone take her respect and
her families respect away. Never believe in anyone with closed eyes.
Of course she didn't have a full intercourse with him so she is still
pure and still clean. Rose now prays to God that he might forgive her
of what she had done and that may he make her strong in the future for
her not to make a foolish step like that ever again.
Rose now says when she is laying on her bed looking at the
celling" People are dumb and cheap by using people and their feelings
for their own good for their own selfishness." And she cries herself
to sleep every night since she had filled for divorce. But Rose didn't
lose her hope that someday a special someone will come for her. Who is
right for her and who wouldn't hurt her at any cost. And who wouldn't
betray her and use her in any such way. May she find the right guy who
will make her happy for ever and always.

[NeedKarma]

I doubt many people will read a 2,600 word rant. Post the executive summary and you may have more chance of replies.

[mix786]

Oh great... well if they do read it they will for sure like it...
Summary won't explain much